Like many of you, I’ve seen the headlines and heard the speculation about Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce possibly getting engaged. And as a Wedding Officiant and Celebrant for Life™, I’ve had more than a few people (including my husband – a HUGE football fan) jokingly ask if I’ve thought about offering my services for what would surely be the wedding of the decade.
Let me set the record straight: I am absolutely ‘over the moon’ delighted for them, if it’s true, but no, I will not be reaching out to Taylor and Travis. Here are five reasons why:
1. Their Love Story Belongs to Them
Every couple I work with deserves the freedom to craft a ceremony that reflects their unique story—not one shaped by outside expectations. Taylor and Travis are already living under the biggest spotlight imaginable – just look at how their one post caused an IG crash. The last thing they need is another voice in the chorus vying for their attention.
2. Privacy is Sacred, Even for Celebrities
I deeply believe in honoring the privacy of couples. Whether I’m officiating a ceremony for two people in a mountain meadow or a vineyard full of family and friends, my role is to hold space for them—not intrude on it. If Taylor and Travis want to invite me, my phone is on. But you won’t see me cold-calling their agents.
3. My Couples Are My Priority
The heart of my work is serving the couples who choose me—whether they’re eloping in Leavenworth, writing vows at my Vow & Vision Weekend™, or saying “I do” at a local winery. I am truly grateful for each of them and my commitment is to be fully present for those couples, not distracted chasing headlines. It’s a promise I make to each couple and it’s included in our agreement.
4. Authenticity Isn’t About Fame
Celebrity weddings can be dazzling, but authenticity is what I value most. The promises spoken at an intimate ceremony between two grounded people mean more to me than a million paparazzi clicks. As your Celebrant for LifeTM, my mission isn’t to collect famous names—it’s to support lifelong love stories.
5. Love Is Bigger Than Spectacle
At the end of the day, marriage isn’t about the dress, the venue, or who officiates. It’s about the marriage itself. My role is to help couples anchor their wedding day in meaning. It’s not about the show. Taylor and Travis already have plenty of that – their careers and success keep them on display all the time. What they choose to create in their marriage—that’s what matters.
So no, you won’t find me sending a DM to Taylor Swift anytime soon. My joy is in standing with the couples who invite me into their lives, crafting ceremonies that reflect their truth, and walking with them beyond “I do” as their Celebrant for Life™.
And honestly? That feels like the most important stage of all. 💛
About Chanelle
Chanelle Carlin is an award-winning, professional Wedding Officiant and your Celebrant for LifeTM . She is also the owner of Chanelle Carlin Weddings, LLC. With a passion for celebrating marriage and crafting deeply personal ceremonies, Chanelle helps couples create authentic, meaningful celebrations of love. Whether through elopements, intimate weddings, personalized coaching, or VIP retreats, she is dedicated to guiding couples through every step of their journey. Based in the Pacific Northwest, Chanelle draws inspiration from the natural beauty around her and her heartfelt connections with the couples she serves. If this sounds like the type of elopement or intimate wedding for you, reach out to Chanelle today to start the conversation. If you’re looking for more wedding inspiration, you can also find her hosting the Now You May KissTM Podcast.