Introduction
Welcome to the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, where love stories come to life. I’m Chanelle Carlin, professional Wedding Officiant and your Celebrant for Life™. You’ve built a strong relationship and are now ready to commit. You’re in the right place for inspiration and expert advice.
In this podcast, we’ll explore everything you need for a bespoke wedding ceremony that celebrates your unique, one-of-a-kind love story. Over the past several years, I’ve had the honor of officiating nearly 200 wedding ceremonies. Each one has been unique and perfectly tailored to the couple’s wishes. My goal is to share these stories, answer your questions, and inspire you as you plan your special day and more importantly, your marriage.
We’ll discuss various aspects of planning your wedding ceremony, from choosing the perfect location to writing heartfelt vows. Each episode aims to make your journey to the altar and forever as smooth and joyous as possible. I recommend starting with episode #1 to get a sense of what this podcast has to offer, but it’s completely up to you. It’s just lovely to have you here, and I’m excited to chat with you.
How to keep in touch
Our podcast episodes are designed to be informative and fun (mostly fun). Whether you’re in the early stages of planning or finalizing details, there’s something here for everyone.
If you have specific questions or a topic you’d like me to discuss, please send us an email at podcast@chanellecarlin.com. Your input helps make this podcast even more special.
Please subscribe to ‘Now You May Kiss’ on your favorite podcast platform so you never miss an episode and feel free to share with friends or family, especially if they’re getting married.
Follow us on social media for behind-the-scenes content, updates, and more. You can find us on Instagram at chanelle.carlin.
Wedding professionals, if you’re interested in sharing your expertise, we’d love to have you on an episode. Email podcast@chanellecarlin.com with your name, business, and the topic you’d like to share. Together, we can make each couple’s ceremony truly unforgettable.
Thank you for joining the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast. Let’s make your dream wedding a reality.
What to Expect
Whether you’re engaged, already married, or simply a fan of love stories like me and my Wedding Pro friends, hopefully this podcast is one you’ll enjoy. During each episode, we’ll have a mix of practical tips, insider info from the perspective of a wedding officiant, and interviews with other wedding experts. We’ll also take some time to answer your questions related to planning your outdoor wedding, especially the ceremony.
In upcoming episodes, we’ll talk about why ceremonies matter and how to make them all about the two of you and your unique, one-of-a-kind love story. We’ll also look at why hiring wedding professionals not only helps alleviate stress leading up to and on your special day and can also ensure you’re getting the best value when planning your wedding. You can expect heartwarming and funny stories, expert advice, and a whole lot of inspiration.
Trailer
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Episode No. 1 – Welcome to Now You May Kiss
“And suddenly you know: It’s time to start something new and trust the magic of beginnings.” – Meister Eckhart
Hello and welcome to the very first episode of the ‘Now You May Kiss’ podcast! I’m your host, Chanelle Carlin, and I am so excited you’re here. In this podcast, we’ll explore all things related to your bespoke wedding ceremony, relationships, and the beautiful journey of love. From planning your dream wedding to nurturing a lifelong partnership, we’ll cover a wide array of topics to help you create magical moments and to celebrate the moments that matter to you.
Episode No. 2 – Fall and Winter Elopements in the PNW – Benefits and Challenges
In this episode of the Now You May Kiss Podcast, we’re diving into the enchanting yet sometimes challenging world of outdoor fall and winter elopements in the Pacific Northwest. Whether you’re dreaming of a scenic autumn backdrop or a cozy winter wonderland, we’ve got you covered with insights into the benefits and challenges of each season and tips to make it perfectly YOU.
Tune in to uncover all the magic and practicality behind planning an unforgettable fall or winter elopement in the beautiful Pacific Northwest!
Episode No. 3 – Why Wedding Ceremonies Matter and How to Make Yours All About the Two of You
In this episode, Now You May Kiss Podcast Host (TM) and Your Celebrant for Life (TM), Chanelle Carlin talks about why wedding ceremonies are important in today’s world. She begins by taking us through a bit of history, highlighting particular traditions and rituals and discussing how wedding ceremonies strengthen us as a community and society. Finally, she focuses a bit of attention on HOW to make your wedding ceremony all about the two of you and your unique one-of-a-kind love story, because that’s really what we all want to know anyway, right?
Episode No. 4 – Why Couples Should Hire a Professional Wedding Officiant and How to Find Them
When you first began dreaming about your wedding day, you started with the two of you, your love story and planning a day where you would share your vows and commit your lives to each other. That happens in the sacred space of your wedding ceremony and there is no better person to help you create a beautiful, meaningful, truly all-about-you ceremony than a professional wedding officiant. Check out today’s episode for the myriad of reasons why AND how to find the right officiant for YOUR special day.
Episode No. 5 – Why Casia Lodge is Perfect for your Wedding or Retreat – a Chat with Evan Hale
In this episode, Chanelle chats with Evan Hale, the Director of Hospitality and Private Dining at Casia Lodge and Ranch. Casia Lodge is a luxury, destination retreat center and venue in Twisp, Washington. Evan and the team at Casia Lodge are all about creating those unforgettable, one-of-a-kind experiences that feel like magic. Evan has a real knack for blending fun with elegance. He shares what makes Casia Lodge THE place to spend an evening, or a weekend or to host your wedding or special event. Check out their website for more details at www.casialodge.com or follow them on IG @casialodgeranch
Episode No. 6 – Travel, Tailored:
Celebrating Love Through Bespoke Travel Experiences with Anna Porter
In this episode, Chanelle chats with Anna Porter, the founder and owner of Mapped Travel. Mapped is a boutique travel agency that specializes in curating exceptional travel experiences in both U.S. and international destinations. Anna focuses on creating highly personalized itineraries tailored to each client’s unique preferences and desires. Anna shares her thoughts on curating travel for couples and ways to celebrate their love through meaningful and memorable journeys. Visit her website at www.mappedluxurytravel.com or follow her on IG
Bonus Episode – Love Aligned:
Coach Penny’s Top 3 Tips for Recognizing Your True Partner
In this special bonus episode of Now You May Kiss, Chanelle welcomes Penny, a love, dating, and relationships coach. Penny Love specializes in helping high-achieving career women find their romantic soulmates. As a feminine energy expert, Penny shares her transformative approach to dating—the high-value, feminine way. With a focus on self-love, loving boundaries, and the highest standards, Penny empowers women to embrace their authentic selves. She shows how to attract deeply fulfilling relationships where they feel truly seen, heard, and cherished.
During this episode, Penny reveals her top three tips for women to know their partner is the one. She even shares a bonus tip for gentlemen to recognize they’re with the right woman. Don’t miss this inspiring and insightful conversation with this intuitive coach, holistic healing expert, and London-based dog mom! Follow Coach Penny on IG @coachpennylove or visit her website at https://coachpennylove.com/
Episode No. 7 – What is an Elopement?
In this episode of Now You May Kiss, Chanelle Carlin dives into the world of elopements, challenging outdated ideas and redefining what it means to “elope” in today’s wedding landscape. From intimate ceremonies on scenic mountaintops to thoughtfully planned micro-weddings in cozy venues, elopements are as unique as the couples who choose them.
Chanelle shares her expert insights on what makes an elopement special, why couples are drawn to these personalized celebrations, and how they can create unforgettable memories without the overwhelm of a traditional wedding. Whether you’re dreaming of saying “I do” surrounded by nature, in an iconic city, or anywhere in between, this episode will inspire and inform you on all things elopement.
If you’re considering an elopement or just curious about this growing trend, tune in to explore the possibilities.
Episode No. 8 – Nurturing Yourself Before the Vows
A Pre-Wedding Self Care Guide
Planning a wedding is exciting, but it can also be overwhelming—especially if you forget to care for the most important part of the celebration: yourself. In this episode of Now You May Kiss, we explore the transformative power of pre-wedding self-care. Drawing inspiration from Chanelle Carlin’s insightful blog, we’ll dive into practical tips and strategies to help you stay grounded, radiant, and present during the lead-up to your big day. Whether you’re navigating the pressures of planning or simply need a reminder to prioritize your well-being, this episode is your guide to embracing the journey with confidence and grace.
Episode No. 9 – Behind the Scenes with Ashley Coffin:
The Local Event Co & Leavenworth Weddings
Join Chanelle Carlin as she has a relaxed chat with Ashley Coffin, owner of The Local Event Co, a premier wedding planning business in Leavenworth, Washington. In this episode, Ashley shares her journey as a wedding planner in the picturesque Bavarian town, dives into why hiring a wedding planner is essential for creating seamless and stress-free celebrations, and reveals how planners enhance the overall client experience. Plus, get the inside scoop on the upcoming Leavenworth Wedding Show and why it’s a must-attend event for couples planning their dream day.
Tune in for expert insights, practical tips, and a behind-the-scenes look at the magic of weddings in Leavenworth and North Central Washington.
Episode No. 10 – Gratitude in Every Word:
The Art of Writing Meaningful Thank You Notes
In this heartfelt episode of Now You May Kiss, Chanelle Carlin dives into the timeless art of writing thank-you notes —a simple yet powerful way to express gratitude after your wedding (or any special occasion!). From acknowledging gifts to showing appreciation for loved ones who played a role in your big day, Chanelle shares thoughtful tips and easy-to-follow strategies to craft meaningful, heartfelt messages.
Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed by the number of notes to write or just need inspiration to make them personal and memorable, this episode will help you turn a daunting task into a joyful act of connection. Tune in to discover why handwritten thank you notes still matter, how to personalize your message, and ways to make the process smooth and stress-free.
Grab your favorite pen and a cup of tea—it’s time to spread some love, one note at a time!
Episode No. 11 – Beyond “I Do”:
3 Easy Tips to Build a Marriage that Lasts a Lifetime.
Your wedding is a magical, unforgettable day—but it’s just the beginning of a lifetime of love, growth, and commitment. In this episode of Now You May Kiss, I’m diving into why your marriage deserves just as much celebration and intention as your wedding day. We’ll explore the power of gratitude, the small everyday moments that strengthen a relationship, and how you can nurture your love beyond the “I do’s” with three super easy, but truly impactful actions you can take today. Whether you’re engaged, newly married, or celebrating decades together, this episode is filled with heart, wisdom, and actionable ways to keep the love alive. Tune in, and let’s celebrate the moments that matter!
Episode No. 12 – The Art of Wedding Catering:
Crafting a Menu that Tells a Story with Desiree Seghetti Sulpizio of Commellini Estate
When it comes to weddings, the food is more than just a meal. It’s an experience, a conversation starter, and a reflection of the couple’s love story. In this episode, I sit down with Desiree Seghetti Sulpizio, Vice President of Operations at the historic Commellini Estate in Spokane. Together, we explore the artistry of wedding catering.
Desiree shares invaluable insights into how couples can make their wedding meal unforgettable. We talk about preserving family traditions; curating personalized menus; embracing sustainability and interactive dining experiences. Desiree has a deep-rooted passion for Italian cuisine and hospitality. She has spent over a decade transforming weddings into immersive culinary experiences at Commellini Estate.
Planning your dream wedding? Love great food and storytelling? This episode is packed with inspiration and expert advice!
Listen in to discover:
- How Commellini Estate’s rich history influences its wedding catering
- The evolution of wedding dining—moving beyond plated meals to interactive experiences
- The power of storytelling through food and how couples can incorporate personal touches
- The latest trends in wedding catering, including sustainability and dietary inclusivity
Follow @CommelliniEstate on Instagram for stunning wedding inspiration and behind-the-scenes looks at their incredible cuisine.
Looking for a venue? Schedule a tour of Commellini Estate to see their breathtaking grounds and all-inclusive wedding amenities.
Loved this episode? Share it with a friend who’s planning their big day! Let’s help more couples create wedding memories that are as delicious as they are meaningful.
Episode No. 13 – From Skincare to Wedding Day Glam:
2Gorjis Tips for Brides
Get ready for a fun, laughter-filled, and deeply insightful episode of Now You May Kiss! Chanelle sits down with the vibrant and fabulous Kim Evans. Kim is a licensed aesthetician, beauty expert, and passionate advocate for every bride’s inner and outer radiance. Kim’s energy is contagious, and her wisdom on pre-wedding skincare and flawless bridal makeup is nothing short of transformational.
Kim shares practical skincare tips and confidence-boosting beauty rituals to help brides remember their queenhood on their wedding day. Whether you’re prepping your skin for that picture-perfect glow or looking for long-lasting makeup tips, this episode is for you. We’ve packed it full of real talk, expert advice, and a whole lot of fun!
Want more of Kim’s magic? Follow her on Instagram @2Gorjiswellness . You can also visit 2GORJIS Integrated Health & Wellness to explore her services. Listen to her podcast, Inspired, Conversations with Kim Evans there too. If you’re a woman business owner—check out her brand-new School of Beauty and Business here.
Tune in, take notes, and get ready to embrace your bridal glow like the queen you are!
Episode No. 14 – Turning Wedding Gifts into a Home Down Payment with Home FundIt
What if your wedding registry could help you buy your first home? In this episode of Now You May Kiss (TM), Chanelle sits down with Mortgage Loan Advisor, Tami Greene from CMG Home Loans. Chanelle and Tami talk about HomeFundIt, a revolutionary program that allows couples to use wedding gifts toward their down payment. Tami shares how it works, why it’s different from traditional crowdfunding, the benefits for couples and their guests, and how you can get started.
Ready to turn your wedding gifts into a home? Tune in now!
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Episode No. 15 – Knowing Your “WHY” Before you Say ‘I Do” with Verlyn Tarlton
Marriage isn’t just about the wedding day—it’s about the life you’re building together. In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Chanelle Carlin sits down with premarital coach, author, and podcast host Verlyn Tarlton to explore the profound importance of truly understanding why you want to get married before saying “I do.”
Verlyn shares wisdom from her work coaching engaged women, emphasizing that a strong marriage starts with honest conversations, full transparency, and a shared vision for the future. She offers three essential tips for couples preparing for marriage:
- Ask the hard questions – Why do you want to get married? Why this person? Why now? Be open, be real, and leave no room for secrets.
- Create a marriage vision board – Just like you plan your dream wedding, plan your dream marriage. What do you see for your future together?
- Consider marriage maintenance counseling – Just like you maintain a car or a home, a healthy marriage requires ongoing care and check-ins.
This conversation is genuine, insightful, and full of love—perfect for engaged couples, newlyweds, and even longtime partners looking to strengthen their relationship.
Tune in and gain the clarity you need to ensure your wedding day isn’t just beautiful—it’s the start of a marriage built to last.
Listen now and connect with Verlyn at www.verlyntarlton.com and on Instagram @before_you_do.
Episode 16 – Marriage, Mission & Meaning
A Love Story 42 Years in the Making w John Graham and Ann Medlock
What does it take to build a marriage that lasts—not just in years, but in purpose, passion, and service? In this heart-expanding episode, Chanelle Carlin sits down with adventurer and author, John Graham and author, speaker and global change maker, Ann Medlock. They are a remarkable couple who have been married for 42 years and whose love story is deeply entwined with their life’s mission.
John is a former diplomat, mountaineer, and author. Ann is a celebrated writer, speaker and the founder of the Giraffe Heroes Project. Together, they are the powerhouse duo behind the global nonprofit honoring everyday people who “stick their necks out” for the common good. Together, they share what it means to grow through differences, stand united through challenges, and build a love that’s rooted in shared values and meaningful work.
Love is both an adventure and a calling. Whether you’re planning your wedding or reflecting on your own marriage journey, this episode is for you.
Featuring insights on:
- Timeless advice for couples who want more than just a wedding—they want a lasting union
- Building a marriage that supports individual and shared purpose
- John’s journey with Asperger’s and how it shaped their dynamic
- Why service and mission matter in partnership
Thank you for joining us for this inspiring conversation with John Graham and Ann Medlock. These are truly two extraordinary humans whose marriage and mission continue to change the world.
Learn more about today’s guests and their work:
- Giraffe Heroes Project – www.giraffe.org: Discover stories of courageous individuals and learn how to “stick your neck out” for the common good.
- Ann Medlock – www.annmedlock.com: Explore Ann’s writings, creative projects, and reflections on life, love, and language.
- John Graham – www.johngraham.org: Dive into John’s powerful books, speeches, and stories of leadership and purpose.
For couples seeking a ceremony with heart and meaning:
Visit www.chanellecarlin.com to learn about my custom elopements and VIP Wedding Visioning Retreats—designed for couples who want a deeply personal and unforgettable wedding experience.
If you loved this episode, be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast app. Oh! Please share it with someone who believes in love with purpose.
Episode 17 – When Love Finds You:
Michelle and Ron’s Journey to Marriage
Are you searching for a love story that feels like it was written in the stars? What if I told you that sometimes, the best love stories aren’t rushed—they’re answered prayers? In this episode of the Now You May KissTM Podcast, we’re diving into a heartfelt, real-life love story that will leave you believing in divine timing, deep connections, and the power of waiting for “the one.”
Guest: Michelle Steiner
Host: Chanelle Carlin, Your Celebrant for Life™
- In This Episode, You’ll Hear:
- 💌 Michelle’s journey before meeting Ron and the prayer that changed everything
- 🎨 The divine encounter at a community art center that sparked a slow-building love
- 💫 How friendship blossomed into something more, rooted in emotional intimacy
- 💍 Michelle’s moment of clarity—how she knew Ron was the one
- 🙏 The role of faith and intuition in navigating love and lifelong commitment
- 💐 Advice for couples planning intentional, high-touch ceremonies
- ✨ Tips for high-net-worth couples seeking a luxurious yet deeply personal wedding experience
Would you like your wedding ceremony that honors your one-of-a-kind love story like Michelle and Ron’s?
Let’s co-create a deeply personal, unforgettable experience together.
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Episode 18 – Wedding Ceremony Myth Busting
with Officiant, Author and Speaker Chris Shelley
Planning a wedding that reflects who you really are as a couple shouldn’t feel like you’re trapped in a rulebook written by strangers. In this week’s delightfully candid episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, your host and Celebrant for Life, Chanelle Carlin, sits down with the irreverently wise and wonderfully warm Chris Shelley—celebrated wedding officiant, speaker, and author of Best. Ceremony. Ever.
Together, they bust through some of the most common (and outdated) wedding myths that are still showing up in high-end ceremonies today—like whether you really can’t see each other before the ceremony, why weddings “always” start late, and if your officiant needs to be awkwardly wedged between you during your vows (spoiler alert: no!).
Chris brings a decade of experience crafting ceremonies that are wildly personal, refreshingly hilarious, and emotionally resonant. This episode is perfect for couples who want to break free from tradition in all the right ways, creating a wedding ceremony that’s elegant, intentional, and unforgettable.
💍 Whether you’re planning a luxury destination elopement or an intimate affair with family, this episode is your permission slip to make your wedding day authentically yours.
🎧 Show Notes:
Guest: Chris Shelley
Award-winning Wedding Officiant, Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant, Speaker, and Author of Best. Ceremony. Ever.
✨ Website: www.IlluminatingCeremonies.com
✨ Instagram: @illuminatingceremonies
Myths Debunked in This Episode:
- Couples can’t see each other before the ceremony
- Weddings always start late
- The Officiant must stand in the “holy triangle”
- Marriage license must be signed after the ceremony
- Outdoor weddings must go on outdoors, rain or shine
- You need a large wedding party
- Personal vows should be private
This is Perfect For You If:
You’re a couple who values intentionality, elegance, and meaning in every detail of your ceremony. You’re seeking a wedding experience that blends personalization, joy, and a healthy dose of humor.
💌 Call to Action:
Ready to ditch the “shoulds” and design a wedding ceremony that reflects your story, your values, and your vision?
💖 Contact Chanelle to explore custom elopement and wedding ceremony options tailored to couples who want more than just pretty photos—you want a meaningful moment that lasts a lifetime.
🕊️ Follow the podcast, leave a review, and share this episode with someone planning their “perfect” day… because perfect doesn’t have to mean “traditional.”
Episode 19 – Love, Legacy & the Money Talk:
Turning Tough Conversations Into Connection – w/ Sarah Nicole Nadler
Imagine this: You’re standing at the altar, fully present, completely confident—not just in your love, but in your shared vision for the future. That kind of clarity starts way before the vows… it starts with conversations about money.”
Talking about finances doesn’t have to feel heavy, awkward, or tense. In fact, with the right tools—and the right mindset—it can become one of the most fun and freeing things you do together as a couple.
In this episode of the Now You May Kiss (TM) Podcast, Chanelle had the opportunity to interview Sarah Nicole Nadler, a 6-figure finance coach for female entrepreneurs, award winning author of the book, “From Hustler to InvestHER” and Wedding business owner. Sarah helps women turn their business profits into personal wealth. We spoke about how couples can learn to have deep conversations about money and finances before they get married.
You can find Sarah at her website: Fierce Feminine Finance by Sarah Nicole Nadler or on social media at @fiercefemininefinance OR, you can purchase her autographed book here for 50% off!
Your love is rare. Your future is worth planning for. And your ceremony should reflect the depth of both.
I hope today’s chat with Sarah Nicole Nadler inspired you to approach those ‘money talks’ with a little more courage—and maybe even a little more laughter.
If this episode made you think or smile, share it with your fiancé or a friend who’s on their own path to ‘I do.’
Until next time, remember: the kiss is just the beginning. What you build together after that is the real love story.
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