Podcast

Introduction

Welcome to the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, where love stories come to life. I’m Chanelle Carlin, professional Wedding Officiant, your Celebrant for Life™ and Host. You’ve built a strong relationship and are now ready to commit. You’re in the right place for inspiration and expert advice.

In this podcast, we’ll explore everything you need for a bespoke wedding ceremony that celebrates your unique, one-of-a-kind love story. Over the past several years, I’ve had the honor of officiating nearly 200 wedding ceremonies. Each one has been unique and perfectly tailored to the couple’s wishes. My goal is to share these stories, answer your questions, and inspire you as you plan your special day and more importantly, your marriage.

We’ll discuss various aspects of planning your wedding ceremony, from choosing the perfect location to writing heartfelt vows. Each episode aims to make your journey to the altar and forever as smooth and joyous as possible. I recommend starting with episode #1 to get a sense of what this podcast has to offer, but it’s completely up to you. It’s just lovely to have you here, and I’m excited to chat with you.

How to keep in touch

Our podcast episodes are designed to be informative and fun (mostly fun). Whether you’re in the early stages of planning or finalizing details, there’s something here for everyone.

If you have specific questions or a topic you’d like me to discuss, please send us an email at podcast@chanellecarlin.com. Your input helps make this podcast even more special.

Please subscribe to ‘Now You May Kiss’ on your favorite podcast platform so you never miss an episode and feel free to share with friends or family, especially if they’re getting married.

Follow us on social media for behind-the-scenes content, updates, and more. You can find us on Instagram at chanelle.carlin.

Wedding professionals, if you’re interested in sharing your expertise, we’d love to have you on an episode. Email podcast@chanellecarlin.com with your name, business, and the topic you’d like to share. Together, we can make each couple’s ceremony truly unforgettable.

Thank you for joining the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast. Let’s make your dream wedding a reality.

What to Expect

Whether you’re engaged, already married, or simply a fan of love stories like me and my Wedding Pro friends, hopefully this podcast is one you’ll enjoy. During each episode, we’ll have a mix of practical tips, insider info from the perspective of a wedding officiant, and interviews with other wedding experts. We’ll also take some time to answer your questions related to planning your outdoor wedding, especially the ceremony.

In upcoming episodes, we’ll talk about why ceremonies matter and how to make them all about the two of you and your unique, one-of-a-kind love story. We’ll also look at why hiring wedding professionals not only helps alleviate stress leading up to and on your special day and can also ensure you’re getting the best value when planning your wedding. You can expect heartwarming and funny stories, expert advice, and a whole lot of inspiration.

Trailer

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Episode No. 1 – Welcome to Now You May Kiss

“And suddenly you know: It’s time to start something new and trust the magic of beginnings.” – Meister Eckhart

Hello and welcome to the very first episode of the ‘Now You May Kiss’ podcast! I’m your host, Chanelle Carlin, and I am so excited you’re here. In this podcast, we’ll explore all things related to your bespoke wedding ceremony, relationships, and the beautiful journey of love. From planning your dream wedding to nurturing a lifelong partnership, we’ll cover a wide array of topics to help you create magical moments and to celebrate the moments that matter to you.

Episode No. 2 – Fall and Winter Elopements in the PNW – Benefits and Challenges

In this episode of the Now You May Kiss Podcast, we’re diving into the enchanting yet sometimes challenging world of outdoor fall and winter elopements in the Pacific Northwest. Whether you’re dreaming of a scenic autumn backdrop or a cozy winter wonderland, we’ve got you covered with insights into the benefits and challenges of each season and tips to make it perfectly YOU.

Tune in to uncover all the magic and practicality behind planning an unforgettable fall or winter elopement in the beautiful Pacific Northwest!

Episode No. 3 – Why Wedding Ceremonies Matter and How to Make Yours All About the Two of You

In this episode, Now You May Kiss Podcast Host (TM) and Your Celebrant for Life (TM), Chanelle Carlin talks about why wedding ceremonies are important in today’s world. She begins by taking us through a bit of history, highlighting particular traditions and rituals and discussing how wedding ceremonies strengthen us as a community and society. Finally, she focuses a bit of attention on HOW to make your wedding ceremony all about the two of you and your unique one-of-a-kind love story, because that’s really what we all want to know anyway, right?

Episode No. 4 – Why Couples Should Hire a Professional Wedding Officiant and How to Find Them

When you first began dreaming about your wedding day, you started with the two of you, your love story and planning a day where you would share your vows and commit your lives to each other. That happens in the sacred space of your wedding ceremony and there is no better person to help you create a beautiful, meaningful, truly all-about-you ceremony than a professional wedding officiant. Check out today’s episode for the myriad of reasons why AND how to find the right officiant for YOUR special day.

Episode No. 5 – Why Casia Lodge is Perfect for your Wedding or Retreat – a Chat with Evan Hale

In this episode, Chanelle chats with Evan Hale, the Director of Hospitality and Private Dining at Casia Lodge and Ranch. Casia Lodge is a luxury, destination retreat center and venue in Twisp, Washington. Evan and the team at Casia Lodge are all about creating those unforgettable, one-of-a-kind experiences that feel like magic. Evan has a real knack for blending fun with elegance. He shares what makes Casia Lodge THE place to spend an evening, or a weekend or to host your wedding or special event. Check out their website for more details at www.casialodge.com or follow them on IG @casialodgeranch

Episode No. 6 – Travel, Tailored:

Celebrating Love Through Bespoke Travel Experiences with Anna Porter

In this episode, Chanelle chats with Anna Porter, the founder and owner of Mapped Travel. Mapped is a boutique travel agency that specializes in curating exceptional travel experiences in both U.S. and international destinations. Anna focuses on creating highly personalized itineraries tailored to each client’s unique preferences and desires. Anna shares her thoughts on curating travel for couples and ways to celebrate their love through meaningful and memorable journeys. Visit her website at www.mappedluxurytravel.com or follow her on IG

Bonus Episode – Love Aligned:

Coach Penny’s Top 3 Tips for Recognizing Your True Partner

In this special bonus episode of Now You May Kiss, Chanelle welcomes Penny, a love, dating, and relationships coach. Penny Love specializes in helping high-achieving career women find their romantic soulmates. As a feminine energy expert, Penny shares her transformative approach to dating—the high-value, feminine way. With a focus on self-love, loving boundaries, and the highest standards, Penny empowers women to embrace their authentic selves. She shows how to attract deeply fulfilling relationships where they feel truly seen, heard, and cherished.

During this episode, Penny reveals her top three tips for women to know their partner is the one. She even shares a bonus tip for gentlemen to recognize they’re with the right woman. Don’t miss this inspiring and insightful conversation with this intuitive coach, holistic healing expert, and London-based dog mom! Follow Coach Penny on IG @coachpennylove or visit her website at https://coachpennylove.com/

Episode No. 7 – What is an Elopement?

In this episode of Now You May Kiss, Chanelle Carlin dives into the world of elopements, challenging outdated ideas and redefining what it means to “elope” in today’s wedding landscape. From intimate ceremonies on scenic mountaintops to thoughtfully planned micro-weddings in cozy venues, elopements are as unique as the couples who choose them.

Chanelle shares her expert insights on what makes an elopement special, why couples are drawn to these personalized celebrations, and how they can create unforgettable memories without the overwhelm of a traditional wedding. Whether you’re dreaming of saying “I do” surrounded by nature, in an iconic city, or anywhere in between, this episode will inspire and inform you on all things elopement.

If you’re considering an elopement or just curious about this growing trend, tune in to explore the possibilities.

Episode No. 8 – Nurturing Yourself Before the Vows

A Pre-Wedding Self Care Guide

Planning a wedding is exciting, but it can also be overwhelming—especially if you forget to care for the most important part of the celebration: yourself. In this episode of Now You May Kiss, we explore the transformative power of pre-wedding self-care. Drawing inspiration from Chanelle Carlin’s insightful blog, we’ll dive into practical tips and strategies to help you stay grounded, radiant, and present during the lead-up to your big day. Whether you’re navigating the pressures of planning or simply need a reminder to prioritize your well-being, this episode is your guide to embracing the journey with confidence and grace.

Episode No. 9 – Behind the Scenes with Ashley Coffin:

The Local Event Co & Leavenworth Weddings

Join Chanelle Carlin as she has a relaxed chat with Ashley Coffin, owner of The Local Event Co, a premier wedding planning business in Leavenworth, Washington. In this episode, Ashley shares her journey as a wedding planner in the picturesque Bavarian town, dives into why hiring a wedding planner is essential for creating seamless and stress-free celebrations, and reveals how planners enhance the overall client experience. Plus, get the inside scoop on the upcoming Leavenworth Wedding Show and why it’s a must-attend event for couples planning their dream day.

Tune in for expert insights, practical tips, and a behind-the-scenes look at the magic of weddings in Leavenworth and North Central Washington.

Episode No. 10 – Gratitude in Every Word:

The Art of Writing Meaningful Thank You Notes

In this heartfelt episode of Now You May Kiss, Chanelle Carlin dives into the timeless art of writing thank-you notes —a simple yet powerful way to express gratitude after your wedding (or any special occasion!). From acknowledging gifts to showing appreciation for loved ones who played a role in your big day, Chanelle shares thoughtful tips and easy-to-follow strategies to craft meaningful, heartfelt messages.

Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed by the number of notes to write or just need inspiration to make them personal and memorable, this episode will help you turn a daunting task into a joyful act of connection. Tune in to discover why handwritten thank you notes still matter, how to personalize your message, and ways to make the process smooth and stress-free.

Grab your favorite pen and a cup of tea—it’s time to spread some love, one note at a time!

Episode No. 11 – Beyond “I Do”:

3 Easy Tips to Build a Marriage that Lasts a Lifetime.

Your wedding is a magical, unforgettable day—but it’s just the beginning of a lifetime of love, growth, and commitment. In this episode of Now You May Kiss, I’m diving into why your marriage deserves just as much celebration and intention as your wedding day. We’ll explore the power of gratitude, the small everyday moments that strengthen a relationship, and how you can nurture your love beyond the “I do’s” with three super easy, but truly impactful actions you can take today. Whether you’re engaged, newly married, or celebrating decades together, this episode is filled with heart, wisdom, and actionable ways to keep the love alive. Tune in, and let’s celebrate the moments that matter!

Episode No. 12 – The Art of Wedding Catering:

Crafting a Menu that Tells a Story with Desiree Seghetti Sulpizio of Commellini Estate

When it comes to weddings, the food is more than just a meal. It’s an experience, a conversation starter, and a reflection of the couple’s love story. In this episode, I sit down with Desiree Seghetti Sulpizio, Vice President of Operations at the historic Commellini Estate in Spokane. Together, we explore the artistry of wedding catering.

Desiree shares invaluable insights into how couples can make their wedding meal unforgettable. We talk about preserving family traditions; curating personalized menus; embracing sustainability and interactive dining experiences. Desiree has a deep-rooted passion for Italian cuisine and hospitality. She has spent over a decade transforming weddings into immersive culinary experiences at Commellini Estate.

Planning your dream wedding? Love great food and storytelling? This episode is packed with inspiration and expert advice!

Listen in to discover:

  • How Commellini Estate’s rich history influences its wedding catering
  • The evolution of wedding dining—moving beyond plated meals to interactive experiences
  • The power of storytelling through food and how couples can incorporate personal touches
  • The latest trends in wedding catering, including sustainability and dietary inclusivity

Follow @CommelliniEstate on Instagram for stunning wedding inspiration and behind-the-scenes looks at their incredible cuisine.
Looking for a venue? Schedule a tour of Commellini Estate to see their breathtaking grounds and all-inclusive wedding amenities.

Loved this episode? Share it with a friend who’s planning their big day! Let’s help more couples create wedding memories that are as delicious as they are meaningful.

Episode No. 13 – From Skincare to Wedding Day Glam:

2Gorjis Tips for Brides

Get ready for a fun, laughter-filled, and deeply insightful episode of Now You May Kiss! Chanelle sits down with the vibrant and fabulous Kim Evans. Kim is a licensed aesthetician, beauty expert, and passionate advocate for every bride’s inner and outer radiance. Kim’s energy is contagious, and her wisdom on pre-wedding skincare and flawless bridal makeup is nothing short of transformational.

Kim shares practical skincare tips and confidence-boosting beauty rituals to help brides remember their queenhood on their wedding day. Whether you’re prepping your skin for that picture-perfect glow or looking for long-lasting makeup tips, this episode is for you. We’ve packed it full of real talk, expert advice, and a whole lot of fun!

Want more of Kim’s magic? Follow her on Instagram @2Gorjiswellness . You can also visit 2GORJIS Integrated Health & Wellness to explore her services. Listen to her podcast, Inspired, Conversations with Kim Evans there too. If you’re a woman business owner—check out her brand-new School of Beauty and Business here.

Tune in, take notes, and get ready to embrace your bridal glow like the queen you are!

Episode No. 14 – Turning Wedding Gifts into a Home Down Payment with Home FundIt

What if your wedding registry could help you buy your first home? In this episode of Now You May Kiss (TM), Chanelle sits down with Mortgage Loan Advisor, Tami Greene from CMG Home Loans. Chanelle and Tami talk about HomeFundIt, a revolutionary program that allows couples to use wedding gifts toward their down payment. Tami shares how it works, why it’s different from traditional crowdfunding, the benefits for couples and their guests, and how you can get started.

Ready to turn your wedding gifts into a home? Tune in now!

#HomeFundIt #WeddingRegistry #DreamWedding #UnforgettableWeddings #WeddingOfficiant #HomeOwnership #EngagedCouples #ChanelleCarlinWeddings #YourCelebrantforLife

Episode No. 15 – Knowing Your “WHY” Before you Say ‘I Do” with Verlyn Tarlton

Marriage isn’t just about the wedding day—it’s about the life you’re building together. In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Chanelle Carlin sits down with premarital coach, author, and podcast host Verlyn Tarlton to explore the profound importance of truly understanding why you want to get married before saying “I do.”

Verlyn shares wisdom from her work coaching engaged women, emphasizing that a strong marriage starts with honest conversations, full transparency, and a shared vision for the future. She offers three essential tips for couples preparing for marriage: 

  • Ask the hard questions – Why do you want to get married? Why this person? Why now? Be open, be real, and leave no room for secrets.
  • Create a marriage vision board – Just like you plan your dream wedding, plan your dream marriage. What do you see for your future together?
  • Consider marriage maintenance counseling – Just like you maintain a car or a home, a healthy marriage requires ongoing care and check-ins.

This conversation is genuine, insightful, and full of love—perfect for engaged couples, newlyweds, and even longtime partners looking to strengthen their relationship.

Tune in and gain the clarity you need to ensure your wedding day isn’t just beautiful—it’s the start of a marriage built to last.

Listen now and connect with Verlyn at www.verlyntarlton.com and on Instagram @before_you_do.

Episode 16 – Marriage, Mission & Meaning:

John & Ann’s Love – 42 Years in the Making

What does it take to build a marriage that lasts—not just in years, but in purpose, passion, and service? In this heart-expanding episode, Chanelle Carlin sits down with adventurer and author, John Graham and author, speaker and global change maker, Ann Medlock. They are a remarkable couple who have been married for 42 years and whose love story is deeply entwined with their life’s mission.

John is a former diplomat, mountaineer, and author. Ann is a celebrated writer, speaker and the founder of the Giraffe Heroes Project. Together, they are the powerhouse duo behind the global nonprofit honoring everyday people who “stick their necks out” for the common good. Together, they share what it means to grow through differences, stand united through challenges, and build a love that’s rooted in shared values and meaningful work.

Love is both an adventure and a calling. Whether you’re planning your wedding or reflecting on your own marriage journey, this episode is for you.

Featuring insights on:

  • Timeless advice for couples who want more than just a wedding—they want a lasting union
  • Building a marriage that supports individual and shared purpose
  • John’s journey with Asperger’s and how it shaped their dynamic
  • Why service and mission matter in partnership

Thank you for joining us for this inspiring conversation with John Graham and Ann Medlock. These are truly two extraordinary humans whose marriage and mission continue to change the world.

Learn more about today’s guests and their work:

For couples seeking a ceremony with heart and meaning:
Visit www.chanellecarlin.com to learn about my custom elopements and VIP Wedding Visioning Retreats—designed for couples who want a deeply personal and unforgettable wedding experience.

If you loved this episode, be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast app. Oh! Please share it with someone who believes in love with purpose.

Episode 17 – When Love Finds You:

Michelle and Ron’s Journey to Marriage

Are you searching for a love story that feels like it was written in the stars? What if I told you that sometimes, the best love stories aren’t rushed—they’re answered prayers? In this episode of the Now You May KissTM Podcast, we’re diving into a heartfelt, real-life love story that will leave you believing in divine timing, deep connections, and the power of waiting for “the one.”

Guest: Michelle Steiner
Host: Chanelle Carlin, Your Celebrant for Life™

  • In This Episode, You’ll Hear:
  • 💌 Michelle’s journey before meeting Ron and the prayer that changed everything
  • 🎨 The divine encounter at a community art center that sparked a slow-building love
  • 💫 How friendship blossomed into something more, rooted in emotional intimacy
  • 💍 Michelle’s moment of clarity—how she knew Ron was the one
  • 🙏 The role of faith and intuition in navigating love and lifelong commitment
  • 💐 Advice for couples planning intentional, high-touch ceremonies
  • ✨ Tips for high-net-worth couples seeking a luxurious yet deeply personal wedding experience

Would you like your wedding ceremony that honors your one-of-a-kind love story like Michelle and Ron’s?
Let’s co-create a deeply personal, unforgettable experience together.
💻 Book your private consultation now

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Share it with someone who needs a reminder that love shows up when it’s meant to

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Episode 18 – Wedding Ceremony Myth Busting: w/Officiant, Author & Speaker Chris Shelley

Planning a wedding that reflects who you really are as a couple shouldn’t feel like you’re trapped in a rulebook written by strangers. In this week’s delightfully candid episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, your host and Celebrant for Life, Chanelle Carlin, sits down with the irreverently wise and wonderfully warm Chris Shelley—celebrated wedding officiant, speaker, and author of Best. Ceremony. Ever.

Together, they bust through some of the most common (and outdated) wedding myths that are still showing up in high-end ceremonies today—like whether you really can’t see each other before the ceremony, why weddings “always” start late, and if your officiant needs to be awkwardly wedged between you during your vows (spoiler alert: no!).

Chris brings a decade of experience crafting ceremonies that are wildly personal, refreshingly hilarious, and emotionally resonant. This episode is perfect for couples who want to break free from tradition in all the right ways, creating a wedding ceremony that’s elegant, intentional, and unforgettable.

💍 Whether you’re planning a luxury destination elopement or an intimate affair with family, this episode is your permission slip to make your wedding day authentically yours.

🎧 Show Notes:
Guest: Chris Shelley
Award-winning Wedding Officiant, Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant, Speaker, and Author of Best. Ceremony. Ever.
✨ Website: www.IlluminatingCeremonies.com
✨ Instagram: @illuminatingceremonies

Myths Debunked in This Episode:

  • Couples can’t see each other before the ceremony
  • Weddings always start late
  • The Officiant must stand in the “holy triangle”
  • Marriage license must be signed after the ceremony
  • Outdoor weddings must go on outdoors, rain or shine
  • You need a large wedding party
  • Personal vows should be private

This is Perfect For You If:
You’re a couple who values intentionality, elegance, and meaning in every detail of your ceremony. You’re seeking a wedding experience that blends personalization, joy, and a healthy dose of humor.

💌 Call to Action:
Ready to ditch the “shoulds” and design a wedding ceremony that reflects your story, your values, and your vision?
💖 Contact Chanelle to explore custom elopement and wedding ceremony options tailored to couples who want more than just pretty photos—you want a meaningful moment that lasts a lifetime.

🕊️ Follow the podcast, leave a review, and share this episode with someone planning their “perfect” day… because perfect doesn’t have to mean “traditional.”

Episode 19 – Love, Legacy & the Money Talk:

Turning Tough Conversations Into Connection – w/ Sarah Nicole Nadler

Imagine this: You’re standing at the altar, fully present, completely confident—not just in your love, but in your shared vision for the future. That kind of clarity starts way before the vows… it starts with conversations about money.”

Talking about finances doesn’t have to feel heavy, awkward, or tense. In fact, with the right tools—and the right mindset—it can become one of the most fun and freeing things you do together as a couple.

In this episode of the Now You May Kiss (TM) Podcast, Chanelle had the opportunity to interview Sarah Nicole Nadler, a 6-figure finance coach for female entrepreneurs, award-winning author of the book, “From Hustler to InvestHER” and Wedding business owner. Sarah helps women turn their business profits into personal wealth. Sarah also shared tips on how couples can learn to have deep conversations about money and finances before they get married.

You can find Sarah at her website: Fierce Feminine Finance by Sarah Nicole Nadler or on social media at @fiercefemininefinance OR, you can purchase her autographed book here for 50% off!

Your love is rare. Your future is worth planning for. And your ceremony should reflect the depth of both.
I hope today’s chat with Sarah Nicole Nadler inspired you to approach those ‘money talks’ with a little more courage—and maybe even a little more laughter.

CALL TO ACTION:
If this episode made you think or smile, share it with your fiancé or a friend on their own path to ‘I do.’
Remember: the kiss is just the beginning. What you build together after that is the real love story.

Episode 20 – Why Wedding Videos Matter

A heart-felt Conversation with Best Made Videos’ Reid Johnson

Guest: Reid Johnson, Owner & Operator of Best Made Videos®
🎥 Award-Winning Seattle Wedding Videographer | Corporate Video Producer | Storyteller at Heart
Connect with Reid:
🌐 Website: https://bestmadeweddingvideos.com
📺 YouTube: @bestmadevideos
📘 Facebook: Best Made Videos
🐦 X : @bestmadevideos

In this Episode:

The emotional value of wedding videography—why your love deserves to be seen and heard.
What questions to ask when hiring a videographer to capture your day with meaning and artistry.
How Reid’s award-winning approach helps couples preserve their story with heart, clarity, and elegance.


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Episode 21 – Surprise Songs, Bug Attacks, and Vow Mishaps:

Why a Pro Officiant Makes All the Difference w/Chris Shelley

Guest: Chris Shelley

  • Website: www.IlluminatingCeremonies.com
  • Instagram: @illuminatingceremonies
  • Author of Best. Ceremony. Ever. (W.W. Norton)
  • Speaker at Wedding MBA and wedding industry conferences nationwide
  • Offering a workshop this fall at Wedding MBA on Improvisation for Your Wedding Business

Highlights from the Episode:

  • Why improvisation is an essential skill for pro-officiants
  • How Chris handled a last-minute officiant replacement just three weeks before the wedding
  • A surprise lip-synced Elvis tribute from the bride’s mom (!?)
  • The bug incident during outdoor vows… and how to stay calm when nature intrudes
  • What happens when vows are heartfelt… but missing the “I promise” part
  • A lighthearted reminder to never forget your marriage license
  • The power of “the gift of more time” from your officiant—and what Chris and Chanelle are doing to create that space this year
  • Why creating a ceremony is deeply personal not just for couples, but for professional officiants too

💍 Want a ceremony that reflects your story, your values, and your love—with warmth, joy, and elegance?
Connect with Chanelle Carlin Weddings:
🌐 Website: chanellecarlin.com
📧 Email: chanelle@chanellecarlin.com
📲 Instagram: @chanelle.carlin
📌 Pinterest: chanellecarlinweddings

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An immersive showcase for couples planning unforgettable weddings in the PNW. Connect with top-tier wedding pros and design your dream celebration.
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Episode 22 – Pre-Wedding Peace & Glow:

Whole Body wellness with Ruby Knapp

In this heart-centered episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle Carlin sits down with Ruby Knapp, Master Esthetician and Founder of Lavish Looks Spa & Wellness Center in Omak, Washington. Together, they explore the power of intentional pre-wedding wellness—beyond skincare and into the realms of emotional grounding, stress relief, and true self-love.

Ruby shares practical, soul-soothing rituals that help couples feel confident and present before they say “I do,” along with insider spa wisdom on red light therapy, salt room healing, and grounding routines that make a lasting difference. Whether you’re planning your wedding or supporting someone who is, this episode is a gentle reminder that your wellness is worth prioritizing.

Episode Guest:
💆‍♀️ Ruby Knapp, Master Esthetician & Owner of Lavish Looks Spa & Wellness Center

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • How stress manifests in our skin and what to do about it
  • The emotional and spiritual benefits of pre-wedding skincare
  • Why red light therapy, infrared saunas, and salt rooms are game-changers for wellness
  • The value of simple, grounding morning and evening rituals
  • Ruby’s favorite tools and tips for brides and grooms-to-be
  • Why self-worth and self-care go hand-in-hand on your wedding journey
  • The beauty of sound baths—and why she’s bringing them to Omak!

Highlights & Quotes:

“Your skin is often the first place stress shows up.”

“It’s not about vanity—it’s about honoring your whole self.”

“Once you believe you’re worth the time, self-care becomes love in action.”

Wellness Must-Haves According to Ruby:

  • Gua Sha for gentle lymphatic drainage
  • Cleanse, tone, moisturize—simple & consistent
  • Morning grounding in nature (even 30 seconds counts!)
  • Gratitude-based evening routines
  • Red light for puffiness & inflammation
  • Salt room for breath & reflection
  • Sound bath for deep emotional release

Connect with Ruby:
🌐 Website: lavish-looks.com
📍 Visit in person or schedule a tour in Omak, WA
📲 Call or text (number available on the website)
📸 Instagram: @_lavish.looks_ (but she admits she’s still working on it!)

Brought to You By:
🎉 Leavenworth Wedding Show – October 25, 2025, at Festhalle in Leavenworth, WA

Final Thought from Ruby:
“Trust that you’ve got this—and remember that your beauty comes from being truly, fully yourself.”

Episode No. 23 – Why Choosing Leavenworth, Washington for Your Wedding Ceremony Any Time of Year Is the Right Idea

In this episode, you’ll discover:

Why Leavenworth is ideal for weddings in every season—yes, even winter!

How this picturesque mountain village elevates intimate weddings and elopements;

What makes Leavenworth feel like a world away (but just a short trip from Seattle or Spokane);

The kind of sacred, soulful ceremony that Chanelle Carlin creates for her couples—and how Leavenworth supports that vision;

A look at the creative vendor community in Leavenworth who specialize in deeply intentional, beautiful celebrations; and

Details about the Leavenworth Wedding Show—a curated October event that’s perfect for engaged couples who want to be inspired and supported

Resources & Links:
Chanelle Carlin Weddings, LLC- https://chanellecarlin.com

Leavenworth Wedding Show: https://leavenworthweddingshow.com

Call to Action:
Is Leavenworth calling to your heart?
Schedule a complimentary Discovery Call and explore what it could look like to begin forever in one of the most magical places in the Pacific Northwest.

And if this episode inspired you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, or tag @chanelle.carlin on Instagram—so other couples can discover the possibility of a wedding ceremony that’s as meaningful as their love.

Episode No. 24 – Love After Loss:

Reclaiming Your Light and Saying ‘Yes’ Again with Michele Heffron

What if your love story didn’t end with divorce—but actually began again with a clearer, more radiant version of you?

In today’s deeply personal and inspiring episode of the Now You May Kiss (TM) Podcast, Chanelle Carlin, your Celebrant for Life™, sits down with Michele Heffron, a transformational coach who guides women through life’s big transitions—especially divorce—and into a future they’re truly excited about.

Together, they explore how healing, rediscovery, and spiritual alignment create the foundation for powerful new beginnings in love and life. This episode is a must-listen for anyone entering a second (or third) marriage, redefining what partnership means to them, or desiring a ceremony that reflects their entire journey—not just the highlight reel.

In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

  • The stigma around “starting over” and how to flip the narrative after divorce
  • Why your value never diminishes—no matter how many times you’ve loved or lost
  • How to know when you’re ready for a new relationship
  • The importance of emotional healing before wedding planning
  • What “calling in the one” really means—and how to attract the right person by being the real you
  • Why deeply personal ceremonies are so transformative for couples of all ages
  • How to celebrate all the moments, not just the milestones, in your marriage

Notable Quotes from Michele Heffron:

“I coach human beings, not problems.”
“If you can dream about being in a relationship again, that person is out there for you.”
“Your heart knows—it’s your head that second guesses. Let your heart speak first.”
“We don’t need to apologize for our past. We get to celebrate how far we’ve come.”

About Michele Heffron:

Michèle Heffron
Life, Relationship & Divorce Coach | Certified Calling in “The One” Coach | Podcaster | Speaker | Writer Guiding you to the heart of who you are and what you’re truly meant for.

Michèle Heffron is a transformational life and relationship coach who supports individuals through some of life’s most defining moments. From navigating the complexities of divorce to rediscovering identity after long-term partnerships, empty nesting, or career shifts, Michèle offers compassionate, strategic guidance through every phase of relationship transition.

Her work is grounded in lived experience—divorce, reinvention, and personal rediscovery—and supported by decades of leadership in both the nonprofit and coaching worlds. She holds space for her clients with empathy, clarity, and a strong belief in their capacity to evolve into who they were always meant to be.

As a certified “Calling in The One” coach, Michèle works with individuals and groups who are ready to shift internal patterns, heal emotional wounds, and become available for authentic, lasting love. Her approach is not just about finding a partner—it’s about becoming the most aligned version of yourself so that the right relationship can meet you there.

Through her podcast, Getting to the Heart: Life, Relationships & Divorce, Michèle engages thought leaders, healers, and experts in intimate conversations that help listeners grow into their most courageous and connected selves. Her weekly newsletter continues the conversation, offering heartfelt insights, transformational tools, and gentle guidance for those navigating love, loss, and the ever-evolving relationship with self.

How to Work with Michele:

Whether you’re facing the end of a marriage, the beginning of a new chapter, or the quiet ache of wondering what’s next, Michèle meets you at the crossroads—with wisdom, humor, and the kind of support that changes lives from the inside out.

Book a complimentary consultation to learn more
Podcast: Getting to the Heart: Life Relationships Divorce
Visit www.micheleheffron.com
LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/micheleheffron/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/MicheleHeffronLifeStrategist
IG: https://www.instagram.com/michele_heffron.coach/

Mentioned in the Episode:

  • “Calling in the One” coaching framework
  • Journaling, prayer, and meditation as tools for clarity
  • Rediscovering old passions as a path to personal alignment
  • Real-life stories of love at 70, rediscovery at 80, and the power of saying “yes” again

Connect with Chanelle Carlin:

If you’re planning a deeply personal, meaningful ceremony—whether it’s your first or fifth time saying “I do”—Chanelle Carlin would be honored to guide you. As a professional Wedding Officiant, Coach, and Celebrant for Life™, Chanelle creates custom ceremonies that reflect the full truth of your journey. Book your complimentary Discovery Call

Episode 25 – Shining a Light on Love:

How Officiants Infuse Positivity & Gratitude into Every Ceremony with Christopher Shelley

What does it really take to keep a wedding day calm, joyful, and full of love—no matter what’s happening around you?

In this episode of Now You May Kiss™, I’m joined once again by my dear friend and fellow officiant, Christopher Shelley, Founder of Illuminating Ceremonies in New York City. This is our third conversation on the podcast, and it’s just as inspiring (and fun) as ever.

Together, we pull back the curtain on the mindset and heart work that goes into officiating weddings. We talk about the ways we, as professionals, practice positivity and gratitude in our daily lives and how those values naturally spill into the ceremonies we create. From reframing hiccups into heartwarming moments, to quietly setting the emotional “temperature” for an entire room, our goal is always to create space where love can truly shine.

Whether you’re a fellow wedding pro, a couple in the midst of planning, or someone who just loves a good behind-the-scenes story, you’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of what goes into making a ceremony unforgettable—and the quiet, powerful role positivity and gratitude play in that magic.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

  • How wedding officiants stay grounded and joyful under pressure
  • Why gratitude can transform not just a ceremony, but your own experience of it
  • Real stories from the aisle about finding silver linings in unexpected moments
  • The ripple effect positivity has on couples, guests, and the entire wedding day

Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Let’s Connect:

If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend and leave a review. It helps more couples find the inspiration and love they need for their special day.

Episode 26 – The Vibe of Central Washington Weddings:

The Leavenworth Wedding Show with Ashley Coffin

The Leavenworth Wedding Show: A Celebration of Central Washington Weddings

There’s something magical about weddings in Central Washington—the community, the collaboration, and yes…even the llamas! In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle welcomes Ashley Coffin, Wedding Planner, Owner of The Local Event Co., and Founder of the Leavenworth Wedding Show.

Ashley shares how this show—coming October 25, 2025, from 9 AM to 3 PM at the Leavenworth Festhalle—is designed to:

  • Immerse couples in the Central Washington wedding scene
  • Offer a fun, relaxed, and interactive vibe (think permanent jewelry, cocktails, coffee, swag, and surprise guests—like llamas!)
  • Highlight a curated selection of vendors from Leavenworth, Wenatchee Valley, Chelan, Cle Elum, Ellensburg, Omak, and beyond
  • Provide a space for wedding professionals to collaborate, recharge, and feel appreciated after a busy season

For Couples: Admission is free, and every hour brings giveaways ranging from jewelry and chocolates to vendor discounts and wedding-day experiences. Whether you just got engaged or are putting the final touches on your plans, this is your chance to meet the best local vendors in one place.

For Vendors: Limited spots remain! Showcase your work, connect with couples, and join a supportive community that thrives on collaboration. Vendor registration is available at LeavenworthWeddingShow.com.

Save the Date: October 25, 2025 | 9 AM – 3 PM | Leavenworth Festhalle
Free for Couples | Vendor registration now open

🎧 Listen in to hear why Ashley calls this event “a vibe” and why Central Washington weddings are unlike any others.

Episode 27 – Wedding Planning Stress, Power Struggles & Healing

with Lindsey Bourne

Planning a wedding is supposed to be one of the happiest times of your life—but if we’re honest, it can also bring up stress, conflict, and old emotional patterns that feel overwhelming. From family pressures to differences in vision, wedding planning has a way of shining a spotlight on dynamics that couples may not have realized were there.

In this episode of Now You May Kiss™, Chanelle welcomes Lindsey Bourne, a relationship coach and couples therapist based in the Bay Area. Lindsey helps ambitious women and couples break free from patterns of conflict, disconnection, and dysregulation so they can build relationships that feel grounded, secure, and deeply aligned for the long term. With a master’s in counseling psychology and years of experience blending somatic practices, attachment healing, and subconscious reprogramming, Lindsey brings both compassion and wisdom to the conversation.

Together, Chanelle and Lindsey explore:

  • The Power Struggle Phase in relationships—what it is, why it happens, and how it can actually become a doorway to transformation.
  • Attachment wounds and why relationships often bring up old pain that has nothing to do with incompatibility.
  • How to reframe emotional triggers as healing opportunities, not signs your relationship is broken.
  • Strategies for navigating wedding planning stress—from family expectations to vendor issues—and staying grounded as a couple.
  • The difference between guilt and resentment when setting boundaries, and how to work through these feelings together.
  • Lindsey’s “U-turn” approach to conflict resolution that helps partners move from blame to self-awareness and growth.

Lindsey reminds us that the challenges couples face—whether during wedding planning or everyday life—are not obstacles to love, but opportunities for deeper connection and healing.

Resources & Links:

Visit Lindsey’s website: https://www.lindseybournecoaching.com/
Follow Lindsey on Instagram: @lindseybournecoaching
Email: lindsey@lindseybournecoaching.com
Free Resource, “Breaking the Pattern”: https://www.lindseybournecoaching.com/breaking-the-cycle

If you’re engaged (or already married) and want a ceremony that reflects your truth while preparing you for a lifetime of love, I’d love to connect.

Episode 28 – Wedding Jewelry: Your Love Story in Metal & Stone

with Columbia River Jewelers

Your wedding ring is one of the most powerful symbols of your love story—an heirloom you’ll wear every day and pass on for generations. In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, host Chanelle Carlin, Wedding Officiant and Celebrant for Life™, welcomes Erika Czerniejewski, owner of Columbia River Jewelers in Scappoose, Oregon. Erika is not only a master jeweler and goldsmith, but also a storyteller in metal and stone, creating meaningful custom designs that reflect the unique bond of every couple.

Together, Chanelle and Erika dive into:

  • 💎 Wedding Jewelry Through History – From ancient Sumerians to Romans and beyond, how rings evolved from practical symbols of ownership to deeply romantic symbols of promise.
  • 💎 Estate, Retail, or Custom? – What couples should know about choosing an heirloom estate piece, a retail design, or commissioning a one-of-a-kind custom ring.
  • 💎 The Art of Custom Design – Erika shares the behind-the-scenes process of creating a ring, from sketches and casting to gemstone selection and hand fabrication.
  • 💎 Diamonds, Lab-Grown & Colored Stones – Exploring the differences, pros and cons, and why many modern couples are choosing sapphires, spinel, or moissanite for their engagement rings.
  • 💎 Working with a Goldsmith – Why personalized guidance matters when designing a piece you’ll wear every day for a lifetime.

Whether you’re planning your own ceremony or simply curious about the artistry of jewelry design, this episode will help you think beyond the sparkle and discover how your rings can reflect your legacy.

Listen now on your favorite podcast platform and be inspired to design jewelry as unforgettable as your vows.

Connect with Columbia River Jewelers

Columbia River Jewelers, 33611 East Columbia Avenue, Unit A, Scappoose, OR, 97056, 503-987-0308
Website: Columbia River Jewelers | Instagram: @columbia_river_jewelers | Facebook: ColumbiaRiverJewelersLLC

Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode

  • Book a complimentary consultation with Chanelle
  • Learn more about creating a meaningful wedding ceremony with Chanelle
  • Reach out to Chanelle to explore the VowCraft™ Method to write vows as unique as your rings

Episode 29 – Special episode

A Little Do-Wop, A Lotta Love


I’ve got something super fun to share — the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast has its very own theme song! And the best part? It was written especially for the show by my husband, Bill Black. This upbeat, toe-tapping, do-wop-inspired tune is pure joy. Just like every ceremony I create, it’s personal, playful, and filled with heart. You’ll be hearing it at the start of each episode, but today you get the full version.

Hit play, turn it up, and maybe even grab your sweetheart for a little spin around the living room. Because when it comes to celebrating love — music makes everything better. And a big shout-out to Bill — thank you for giving the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast its own soundtrack of love.

Episode 30 – Beyond the Perfect Honeymoon

Luxury Travel That Reflects Who You Are — with Carolyn Kulb

Discover how to plan a stress-free, luxurious honeymoon that feels truly you. Chanelle Carlin interviews Luxury Travel Advisor Carolyn Kulb of Windward Path about meaningful travel for high-end couples.

Introduction

Your honeymoon is more than a vacation — it’s the first adventure you take as a married couple. But between wedding planning and the pressure to “get it right,” creating that once-in-a-lifetime trip can be… a lot.

Why Honeymoon Planning Is Uniquely Challenging

  • Wedding planning stress and the pressure of perfection
  • When one partner takes on all the planning
  • The emotional weight of starting married life “the right way”

Key Decisions Couples Need to Make Together

  • How to balance adventure vs. relaxation
  • Choosing your ideal destination, not what’s trending
  • When multi-destination trips help (and when they complicate things)

The Case for Delayed Honeymoons

  • Why luxury couples are waiting 1–6 months post-wedding
  • How breathing space turns a trip into an experience

The Value of Expert Guidance

  • Insider access and perks only a travel advisor can provide
  • Why true luxury is stress-free, personalized, and intentional

Closing Thoughts

Whether it’s your ceremony or your honeymoon, the most unforgettable moments come from experiences that feel genuine, not performative.

🎧 Listen now on Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, hosted by Chanelle Carlin, Your Celebrant for Life™, and featuring Carolyn Kulb of Windward Path.

Episode 31 – Christmas Elopements in Leavenworth:

Snowflakes, Storybooks, and Saying “I Do”

What if your wedding day felt like stepping into a snow globe?

In this beautifully narrated solo episode of Now You May Kiss™, host Chanelle Carlin, Professional Wedding Officiant and Your Celebrant for Life™, invites couples to imagine the cozy, romantic magic of a Christmas elopement in the Bavarian wonderland of Leavenworth, Washington.

Through heartfelt storytelling, Chanelle shares the real love stories of five couples who chose the holiday season to begin their forever — from spontaneous gazebo vows during a Seahawks game to candlelit ceremonies surrounded by family and snow.

You’ll also hear practical tips for planning a Christmas elopement, insights on timing, attire, travel, and local touches, and a special invitation to attend the Leavenworth Wedding Show on October 25, 2025.

Whether you’re dreaming of a snowy “I do” or looking for inspiration for a cozy, meaningful celebration, this episode is filled with warmth, wonder, and love.

Highlights:

  • ❤️ Five real Christmas elopement stories from couples across Central Washington
  • ❄️ Practical planning tips for winter elopements
  • 🕯️ The magic of Leavenworth’s Christmas lights and snow-filled streets
  • 💍 Why Christmas is the perfect time to say “I do“
  • 🎄 Info on the Leavenworth Wedding Show and local travel resources

in This Episode:

Listen Now:

🎧 Now You May Kiss™ is available on Spotify, and most podcast platforms.

Episode 32 – Talking with Your Children About Remarriage

with Rosalind Sedacca, CLC – Founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network

When a parent finds love again after divorce, it can be a season filled with joy, renewal, and—if children are involved—many tender emotions. In this moving episode of Now You May Kiss™, Chanelle sits down with Rosalind Sedacca, Certified Life Coach, Divorce & Parenting Coach, and founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network, to talk about the emotional landscape of remarriage with children and how parents can nurture safety, honesty, and connection through the process.

Rosalind shares her own story of divorce and co-parenting, the pivotal moment when her adult son thanked her for “doing divorce right,” and the lessons that led her to create the Child-Centered Divorce Network. Together, Chanelle and Rosalind explore:

  • Opening the conversation early: Why talking with your children (not around them) builds security long before a wedding date is set.
  • Seeing through your child’s eyes: Understanding jealousy, fear, and uncertainty when a new partner enters their world.
  • Love that multiplies: How to explain that “love isn’t pie” — there’s always room for more without replacing anyone.
  • Healthy introductions: Practical tips for introducing a new partner or step-parent slowly and respectfully.
  • The language of reassurance: Words and phrases that help children feel safe—and what to avoid saying.
  • Modeling emotional responsibility: The power of apologizing, validating feelings, and showing empathy.
  • Celebrating as a family: Ideas for including children in remarriage ceremonies or family vows so they feel truly part of the new story.

Memorable Moment from the Episode

Chanelle shares a touching story from a family wedding where a young daughter, joyful throughout the engagement, burst into tears walking down the aisle with her dad. Rosalind helps unpack what was happening beneath those big emotions — and how that family’s gentle, compassionate response modeled exactly what child-centered love looks like.

Takeaway Message

When parents remarry, the family expands — it doesn’t replace. Children need time, honesty, and reassurance that their place in your heart will never change. By leading with empathy and intentional communication, you not only build a stronger new marriage… you give your children a lifelong example of healthy love.

Connect with Rosalind Sedacca

Website: childcentereddivorce.com
Instagram: @rosalindsedacca
Resources: Free guides, eBooks, and coaching for parents navigating divorce and remarriage.

Episode 33 – Seeking True love – with dating coach Elizabeth Rave

Episode Summary

In this powerful and heartfelt episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle welcomes Elizabeth Rave, dating and relationship coach for highly sensitive women. Elizabeth brings a grounded, compassionate lens to what it means to seek — and choose — real, lasting love.

Together, they explore:

✔️ What love truly is: acceptance, growth, devotion, and shared evolution
✔️ How to understand your emotional needs before choosing a lifelong partner
✔️ Why falling in love is an act of deep vulnerability — and how to embrace it with courage
✔️ How to create the relationship you desire, starting with clarity and self-awareness

Elizabeth speaks candidly about learning what she needed in a committed relationship and how gaining emotional clarity allowed her to redefine love in a healthier, more fulfilling way. Her story is an inspiring reminder that:

✨ Love is both a feeling and an action
✨ Self-awareness leads to better partnership
✨ Devotion, emotional safety, and mutual growth create the foundation for a lifelong marriage

This conversation is warm, honest, and full of gentle wisdom — perfect for anyone preparing for marriage, healing from past relationships, or hoping to deepen their current partnership.

About Our Guest: Elizabeth Rave

Elizabeth is a dating and relationship coach specializing in supporting highly sensitive women who want to call in the healthy, supportive, emotionally safe relationship they’ve always dreamed of. She is also the host of the Seeking True Love Now podcast.

Learn more or access her free resource, Five Dating Mistakes Highly Sensitive Women Should Avoid, at ElizabethRave.com.

Resources Mentioned

🌟 Elizabeth’s Website: ElizabethRave.com
🌟 Free PDF for Highly Sensitive Women: Five Dating Mistakes to Avoid
🌟 Seeking True Love Podcast: available on all major platforms

Connect with Chanelle

As always, thank you for being here. Whether you’re newly dating, newly engaged, or building a marriage that lasts a lifetime, you are welcome in this space. 💛

Learn more about weddings, elopements, and creating meaningful ceremonies at:
ChanelleCarlin.com

Episode 34 – North Central WA Spotlight

Blue Elk Inn Weddings in Leavenworth, Washington

In this Episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle continues the North Central Washington Regional Spotlight with a charming and heartfelt venue feature: the Blue Elk Inn in Leavenworth, WA.

Chanelle is joined by General Manager, Kyra Skaggs, who shares what makes this boutique hotel such a special place for small weddings, elopements, and intimate celebrations. From its independently owned roots to its thoughtfully designed backyard wedding pavilion (landscaped with help from Kyra’s own parents!), the Blue Elk Inn offers couples a welcoming and beautifully curated setting for their wedding weekend.

Highlights from this episode:

  • Full-property buyouts with 31 rooms for guests
  • Stunning professionally landscaped backyard wedding space
  • Ceremony and reception in one location
  • Breakfast included with every stay
  • Seasonal pool, hot tub, saunas, and cruiser bikes
  • Less than a mile from downtown Leavenworth
  • Vendor support and rentals through The Local Event Co
  • Year-round wedding availability, including winter weddings in the snow

Whether you envision a relaxed outdoor celebration, a cozy winter ceremony, or a family-friendly wedding with everyone staying together, the Blue Elk Inn offers the beauty, convenience, and hospitality that make wedding weekends unforgettable.

Links Mentioned

Blue Elk Inn- https://BlueElkLeavenworth.com

The Local Event Co – https://thelocaleventco.com

Episode 35 – Sustainable, Meaningful Weddings

with Kiira Portet of Evergreen Event Company

Today on the Now You May Kiss™ podcast, I’m thrilled to welcome Kiira Portet, owner of Evergreen Event Company, a Seattle-area wedding and elopement planner devoted to intentional and eco-conscious celebrations. Kiira blends her background in corporate event planning with a deep love for creativity, connection, and sustainability—helping couples craft wedding experiences rooted in their values.

in This Episode:

The Beauty and Benefits of Small Weddings & Elopements
Kiira and I discuss why intimate weddings allow couples to be more present, more connected, and less overwhelmed. With fewer guests, couples have the freedom to personalize their celebration, invest in meaningful details, and make thoughtful choices that reflect what truly matters to them.

How Wedding Planners Support Elopements and Micro-Weddings
Even small events have logistics. Kiira shares how planners can:

  • Source and coordinate eco-minded vendors
  • Handle day-of logistics so the photographer can focus on imagery
  • Pick up florals, cake, or rentals for traveling couples
  • Manage guest comfort, unexpected weather shifts, and timeline transitions
  • Support celebrations with 10–20 guests, where “small” still involves moving parts

Sustainability in Weddings
We explore the growing movement toward environmentally responsible weddings, including:

  • Choosing florists who avoid floral foam
  • Renting décor, tables, linens, and items used weekend after weekend
  • Asking venues about shared décor closets
  • Reusing florals by donating them to local care facilities (Kiira mentions the Wenatchee nonprofit Lilies of the Valley)
  • Reducing travel and waste by focusing on meaningful experiences rather than disposable items

Kiira encourages couples to start small—one sustainable choice at a time.

Starting Wedding Planning with Your WHY
Before budgeting, before guest lists, before venues—Kiira challenges couples to begin by asking:

  • Why are we choosing to have a wedding?
  • What does this celebration represent in our love story?
  • What kind of marriage do we hope to build?

Your “why” becomes your North Star. It helps you navigate outside opinions, expectations, and pressures, and ensures that your wedding day—and the decisions you make—feel aligned with your values and your future together.

The Emerald Hour Collective
Kiira shares her work with Emerald Hour, a Seattle-based group of wedding vendors committed to sustainability. Through events, education, and community support, Emerald Hour helps vendors adopt environmentally responsible practices and inspires couples to design celebrations that feel intentional and lasting.

💬 Where to Find Kiira Portet & Evergreen Event Company

Evergreen Event Company – Seattle-based sustainable wedding & elopement planning

  • Availability for 2026 weddings and elopements

💛 Work with Chanelle Carlin

If you’re looking for a Professional Wedding Officiant and Celebrant for Life™ to guide you through planning an intentional, meaningful ceremony—or you have questions about eloping in the Pacific Northwest—I’d be honored to support you.

Book a complimentary Consultation/Discovery Call: Contact Chanelle – Chanelle Carlin Weddings

Episode 36 – Create, Connect & Flourish: Celebrating Life Through Art

Guest: Cindy Shaw, Owner of Color Collective by Cindy Shaw

In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle Carlin welcomes artist, educator, and creative community builder Cindy Shaw for a lighthearted yet meaningful conversation about celebration, creativity, and connection.

Cindy shares her journey from a decades-long career in the corporate world to founding Color Collective by Cindy Shaw, a creative event business designed to help people reconnect—with themselves and with one another—through guided painting parties and art experiences.

In this episode, we explore:

  • Why creativity is essential to our overall well-being
  • How art helps reduce stress, anxiety, and isolation
  • Cindy’s philosophy of Create, Connect, and Flourish
  • Why you don’t need to be “artistic” to enjoy a painting party
  • How painting parties make meaningful alternatives for bridal showers and bachelorette celebrations
  • The beauty of multi-generational gatherings centered on creativity
  • Why shared experiences matter more than perfect results
  • How art fosters problem-solving, confidence, and joy
  • Reclaiming childlike play in adulthood—without judgment or pressure

Cindy also explains how her painting parties work, from pre-traced canvases to step-by-step guidance, making the experience approachable and fun for everyone. Guests walk away not only with a finished piece of art, but with memories, laughter, and a deeper sense of connection.

This episode is a reminder that celebration doesn’t have to be loud, boozy, or over-the-top to be meaningful. Sometimes, the most powerful moments happen when we sit side by side, create something together, and simply enjoy being human.

Connect with Cindy Shaw

About Your Host

Chanelle Carlin is a Wedding Officiant and Celebrant for Life™, known for creating deeply personal, heartfelt wedding ceremonies that honor each couple’s unique story. She is the founder of Chanelle Carlin Weddings and the host of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, where she explores love, marriage, celebration, and the meaningful moments that bring people together.

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Episode 37 – Gratitude, Growth & Joy in Ceremony: 2025 Reflections

Guest:

Christopher Shelley, Owner & Lead Officiant of Illuminating Ceremonies

Episode Summary:

In the final episode of 2025, Chanelle Carlin welcomes back Christopher Shelley for a personal and reflective conversation that weaves together wedding stories, professional insights, and heartfelt gratitude. Together, they look back on the moments that shaped their year and look ahead to what couples and wedding professionals can carry forward into 2026.

In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

  • A candid recap of 2025 through meaningful wedding stories
  • Lessons learned from a year of ceremonies, clients, and collaboration
  • What Chanelle and Chris are most grateful for—personally and professionally
  • Encouragement for wedding professionals to keep learning, growing, and saying “yes”
  • Empowering advice for couples planning a 2026 wedding, including:
    • Trusting your gut
    • Creating a wedding that truly reflects you
    • Hiring experienced professionals—and trusting them to do their jobs
    • The value and luxury of hiring a wedding planner so you can be fully present on your day
  • A reflection on the unique role officiants play in fostering joy, calm, and connection during a ceremony.

Why This Episode Matters:

This conversation is a reminder that weddings are not just events—they are sacred moments of transition, celebration, and meaning. Whether you’re a couple planning your wedding, a fellow wedding professional, or simply someone who believes in the power of love and ceremony, this episode offers perspective, reassurance, and inspiration.

About the Guest:

Christopher Shelley is the owner of Illuminating Ceremonies and a respected wedding officiant known for crafting heartfelt, personalized ceremonies that reflect each couple’s unique story. His work centers on presence, authenticity, and joy—values he brings to every ceremony and every conversation. He is also a talented writer and the author of Best.Ceremony.Ever.

About the Host:

Chanelle Carlin is a Professional Wedding Officiant, ceremony coach, and the host of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast. Through Chanelle Carlin Weddings, she serves couples with deeply personalized ceremonies, vow writing support, and ongoing guidance as their Celebrant for Life™.

Listen & Connect:

Episode 38 – August Veils: How Veils Transform the Bridal Look

With Bethany Spence, Owner & Lead Designer, August Veils (Portland, OR)

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Episode 38 – How Veils Transform Your Bridal Look with Bethany Spence, Owner & Lead Designer of August Veils

Veils have adorned brides for centuries — yet today, they are more personal, expressive, and meaningful than ever.

In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle Carlin welcomes Bethany Spence, the owner and lead designer of August Veils, a Portland-based studio specializing in custom veils, headpieces, and heirloom restorations. Bethany shares her path into bridal design, her love for storytelling through fabric, and her passion for helping brides feel complete, confident, and fully themselves on their wedding day.

In This Episode, We Discuss:

  • Bethany’s journey from bridal stylist to owner of August Veils
  • Why veils instantly signal “bride” and create a sense of ceremony
  • Traditional origins of veils — and how modern couples reinterpret them
  • Veil lengths, widths, and styles explained in an approachable way
  • How to pair veil styles with different wedding dresses
  • Current bridal veil trends, including lace, blushers, and vintage flair
  • Real-world advice for windy outdoor weddings (veil weights, styling tips, and ceremony logistics)
  • Heirloom veil restoration and reimagining family wedding pieces
  • Beautiful stories of multi-generational veils and meaningful keepsakes
  • When to shop for a veil — and why trying one on matters, even if you’re unsure.

Bethany also offers encouraging advice for brides who feel overwhelmed or uncertain: sometimes the perfect veil is the one you didn’t expect — and sometimes simply trying one on changes everything.

About Our Guest

Image of Bethany Spence, Owner and Lead Designer at August Veils

Bethany Spence is the owner and lead designer of August Veils, a Portland, Oregon studio known for its thoughtful craftsmanship, custom designs, and heirloom restorations. Bethany works closely with brides to create veils and headpieces that honor tradition, reflect personal style, and carry meaning across generations.

Learn More: August Veils – Custom bridal veils and accessories in Oregon

About Your Host

Chanelle Carlin
Chanelle Carlin, Owner Chanelle Carlin Weddings and Host of the Now You May Kiss ™ Podcast. Photo credit: Roxanne Best, Roxtography

Chanelle Carlin is a professional Wedding Officiant and Celebrant for Life™, supporting couples through deeply personal wedding ceremonies, vow writing, and meaningful milestones. She is the host of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, where she shares conversations with wedding professionals and thought leaders who help couples create weddings — and marriages — rooted in intention.

🎙️ If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone planning their wedding.

Episode 39 – Reimagining Family Heirloom Pieces into modern, wearable designs

with Carter Eve, Founder of Carter Eve Jewelry

In this episode, we discuss:

  • Carter Eve’s path to becoming a fine jewelry designer and goldsmith
  • How childhood experiences and art school shaped her creative philosophy
  • The importance of intentional design in engagement rings and wedding jewelry
  • Why engagement rings should reflect your lifestyle, your aesthetic, and your story
  • Reworking heirloom jewelry into meaningful modern pieces
  • Sustainability in fine jewelry: recycled gold, ethical gemstones, and conflict-free diamonds
  • How to properly care for engagement rings and heirloom jewelry
  • Why appraisals and insurance matter — and when to get them
  • Practical tips for protecting your rings in everyday life
  • Letting go of outdated engagement “rules” and enjoying the process

Carter’s advice for couples:

  • There are no rules when it comes to engagement rings — only what feels right for you
  • Choose a ring that fits your daily life, work, and activities
  • When in doubt, take your ring off and store it safely
  • Have your ring professionally cleaned and checked every six months
  • Enjoy the engagement process — it should be fun, not stressful

About Carter Eve

Carter Eve is the founder and designer behind Carter Eve Jewelry, a Los Angeles–based fine jewelry studio specializing in handcrafted engagement rings, custom designs, and heirloom transformations. Her work blends timeless design with sustainability, using recycled gold, ethically sourced gemstones, and conflict-free diamonds. Carter believes jewelry should feel deeply personal, wearable, and meaningful — designed to honor the stories we carry forward.

Connect with Carter Eve Jewelry

  • Website: https://carterevejewelry.com
  • Instagram: @carterevejewelry
  • TikTok: @carterevejewelry
  • Pinterest, YouTube, Facebook: Carter Eve Jewelry

A Note from Chanelle

As a Wedding Officiant and Celebrant for Life™, I believe your ceremony — and everything surrounding it — should reflect who you are and what matters most to you. Just like your vows, your engagement ring is a symbol of your story, your values, and the life you’re creating together.

Episode 40 – Holding space for love, legacy & Life’s most meaningful moments

w/Vic Thomas, NZ Celebrant and Founder of My Celebrant

Vic Thomas, NZ Celebrant and Founder My Celebrant

“You do you, boo.” – Vic Thomas

In This Episode, We Cover:

  • What a Celebrant Really Does
    The global role of celebrants and how they differ (and align) with officiants in the U.S.
    Why celebrancy is about honoring life’s milestones — not just weddings.
  • 💛 Crafting Deeply Personal Ceremonies
    Why presence, observation, and emotional attunement matter just as much as words.
    How micro-weddings and intentional guest lists create powerful ceremony moments.
  • 🐾 The Magic Is in the Details
    From couples’ day-to-day love to pets, laughter, and quiet moments — how meaning is found beyond the script.
  • 👩‍👧‍👦 Motherhood, Seasons of Life & Business Evolution
    How Vic redesigned her offerings and workflow to support life with three young children.
    Creating aligned packages that honor both family and clients.
  • 🧠 The “CEO Era” of Celebrancy
    Moving from survival mode to intentional leadership.
    Why systems and boundaries actually create more space for connection and care.
  • 📲 Modern Couples & the Client Experience
    Gen Z, mobile-first planning, and why seamless systems matter more than ever.
    Delivering a stress-free, collaborative ceremony planning journey.
  • 💍 Marriage Changes Everything (Even When You Think It Won’t)
    Honest reflections on what truly shifts after marriage — even for couples together decades before “I do.”
  • 🕊️ Love, Loss & Legacy
    Chanelle shares a moving story of her grandparents’ 77-year marriage and the lessons it holds about partnership, devotion, and choosing each other — every day.

Connect with Vic Thomas & My Celebrant

  • Website: www.mycelebrantapp.com
  • Instagram: @mycelebrant.app
  • 🎁 Celebrants in NZ, Australia, the UK & Ireland can start a 30-day free trial
  • 🌍 International celebrants can join the waitlist via Instagram

A Final Thought from Chanelle

As Vic so perfectly says: “You do you, boo.”

Your wedding day — and your marriage — should reflect who you truly are. And the right celebrant, systems, and support can make the journey not just meaningful, but joyful.

Episode 41 – Devoted to Love and Care: Ensuring your grandparents and elderly relatives are part of every special day w/ Chelcy Flores of Devote Home Care and Devote Event Care

In This Episode, We Cover:

  • Why so many couples feel torn between caregiving and celebrating on their wedding day
  • The inspiration behind Devote Event Care and how it supports families during major life moments
  • How personalized care plans are created before the wedding day to eliminate unknowns
  • What wedding-day support can look like for grandparents and loved ones with special needs
  • How caregivers seamlessly “blend in” so couples and families can relax and stay present
  • The emotional impact of including grandparents and honoring multiple generations
  • Real-life stories of outdoor, destination, and intimate weddings made possible with extra care
  • Why competence, medical knowledge, and gentle planning matter when it comes to event care

Key Takeaway

You don’t have to leave your grandparents—or any loved ones—out of your wedding day. With the right support, you can celebrate fully and honor the people who shaped your story.

About Chelcy Flores

Chelcy Flores is the founder of Devote Home Care Agency and Devote Event Care. With a professional background in nutrition, pediatric care, and orthopedic surgery, Chelcy brings both compassion and clinical expertise to her work. She personally builds each care plan, ensuring every client feels seen, safe, and supported—especially during life’s most meaningful moments.

Connect with Devote Home Care & Event Care

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Because when we slow down enough to include our elders, we honor the full story—and those are the moments that last long after the music stops.

Episode 42 – Destination Weddings: What Couples Need to Know with Carolyn Kulb of Windward Path

Destination Weddings Done Right

On this episode of the Now You May Kiss Podcast, I’m joined again by luxury travel advisor Carolyn Kulb, founder of Windward Path, to explore one of the most exciting (and sometimes misunderstood) wedding trends today: destination weddings.

If you’ve ever imagined getting married on a mountaintop, at a European villa, or beside the sea, this episode is for you.

And here’s something that may surprise you:

One in four couples is now choosing a destination wedding.

Let’s break down what that really means.

Who Should Consider a Destination Wedding?

Destination weddings aren’t for everyone — but they’re for more people than you might think.

Carolyn shares that destination weddings can be ideal for:

Couples With a Distributed Guest List

If your families live in different states or countries, choosing a neutral location can simplify decision-making. Everyone travels. No one side “hosts.”

Couples Who Want Intimacy

A destination wedding naturally reduces guest count.
It creates a deeply personal, meaningful celebration.

Couples Planning a Second Wedding

Second marriages often prioritize experience over spectacle.
Destination weddings provide celebration without the pressure of a large hometown event.

Couples Who Want Their Budget to Stretch

In some locations, your budget may go further than in major U.S. cities.
But — and this is important — that’s not always the case.

Destination weddings can save money.
They can also cost more.

It depends entirely on location, guest count, and priorities.

Types of Destination Weddings

When many people hear “destination wedding,” they imagine a beach in Mexico.

That’s certainly an option.
But it’s far from the only one.

Here are some growing trends:

European Romance

Think villas in Italy.
Wine estates in Portugal.
Elopements near the Eiffel Tower.

Adventure Destinations

The Pacific Northwest mountains.
Costa Rica’s jungles and beaches.
New Zealand’s dramatic landscapes.

These locations offer activities for every generation — from ziplining to hot springs.

City Celebrations

Instead of New York, why not Paris?
Instead of Los Angeles, why not Barcelona?

Destination weddings can be urban, rustic, coastal, or completely unconventional.

The Essential Wedding Team

One of the biggest misconceptions is that couples must manage everything themselves. You should not. Carolyn strongly recommends two key professionals:

1. A Travel Advisor

A travel advisor handles:

  • Guest flights
  • Room blocks
  • Group rates
  • Excursions
  • Travel questions

This prevents you from becoming the default customer service line for 30 or 300 guests.

2. An On-Site Wedding Planner

Most destination resorts and venues include an in-house wedding planner.

They coordinate:

  • Ceremony logistics
  • Catering
  • Alcohol
  • Florals
  • Seating
  • Local vendors

You may not need to hire a separate U.S.-based planner unless you prefer one.

The key is clarity of roles.

You celebrate.
They coordinate.

Legal vs. Symbolic Ceremonies

This is one of the most important conversations.

Many countries make legal marriage complex for non-residents.

For example, some European Union countries require extensive documentation.
Other destinations require long residency periods.

Because of this, many couples:

  1. Legally marry in the United States.
  2. Host a symbolic ceremony at their destination.

This approach simplifies paperwork dramatically.

As an officiant, I care deeply about making sure your marriage is legally valid.
Separating legal and symbolic ceremonies can remove enormous stress.

And it’s completely acceptable.

When a Destination Wedding May Not Be Ideal

There are situations where a destination wedding isn’t wise.

Consider avoiding one if:

  • Key family members cannot travel due to health or finances
  • It would create significant family conflict
  • The budget truly isn’t there
  • You are set on completing all legal paperwork abroad

There is no “right” wedding model.
Only the one that serves your marriage best.

Practical Considerations Couples Often Forget

Carolyn shared several logistical realities couples should think through early:

Communicate Early and Clearly

Send save-the-dates early.
Provide a detailed travel information page.
Set expectations upfront.

Travel Insurance Is Non-Negotiable

Flights get canceled.
Luggage gets lost.
Delays happen.

Insurance protects your investment and your peace of mind.

Weather and Season Matter

Off-season may be cheaper.
But it may also be colder — or unbearably hot.

Have a Plan B.

Especially for outdoor weddings.

Plan Extra Time On-Site

Arrive 4–6 days before your ceremony.
Build in time for jet lag and vendor meetings.
Add space for problem-solving.

Then, consider staying afterward for your honeymoon.

A destination wedding should feel spacious — not rushed.

A Final Encouragement

Whether you’re dreaming of Greece, Mexico, Ireland, or the Pacific Northwest…

Your wedding does not have to follow a single formula.

It can be:

  • Legal here, symbolic there.
  • Small and intimate.
  • Adventurous and bold.
  • Romantic and traditional.

The goal is not perfection.

The goal is alignment with your values, with your story and with your marriage.

About Carolyn Kulb

Carolyn Kulb, Luxury Travel Advisor, Owner of Windward Path
Photo of Carolyn taken by: Janet Lin Anderson

Carolyn Kulb is a luxury travel advisor and the owner of Windward Path. She specializes in curating meaningful travel experiences — from honeymoons to destination weddings — designed to reflect each couple’s unique story.

Episode 43 – How Entrepreneurial Couples Can Strengthen Their Marriage and Business with Annie Yatch

In this episode of the Now You May Kiss Podcast, Chanelle Carlin welcomes transformational relationship expert Annie Yatch for a powerful conversation about what it really takes for couples to thrive in both marriage and business.

Annie specializes in helping entrepreneurial couples navigate the unique pressures that come with building companies and relationships simultaneously. Through her work, she guides couples in identifying subconscious patterns that create conflict and replacing them with tools that foster connection, collaboration, and mutual leadership.

Drawing from her own experience building multiple businesses with her former spouse—as well as her background working with high-performance leaders—Annie shares a practical methodology for helping couples communicate more effectively, resolve conflict, and reconnect when tensions arise.

Throughout the conversation, Chanelle and Annie explore how couples can create a shared emotional vision for their relationship, learn to interrupt negative conflict patterns, and develop the communication skills necessary for long-term partnership.

Because as Annie beautifully reminds us, the goal in conflict isn’t to win the argument—it’s to race back to connection as quickly as possible.

For couples preparing for marriage or navigating life and business together, this episode offers powerful insight into building a relationship that supports both partners’ growth.

Key Topics Discussed

  • Why entrepreneurial couples face unique relationship challenges
  • The role subconscious beliefs play in conflict and communication
  • How identifying the “story” you’re telling yourself can transform disagreements
  • Creating a shared emotional vision for your relationship
  • Why successful couples prioritize connection over being right
  • Annie’s practical framework for giving feedback in a way that strengthens relationships
  • How compassion, gentleness, and vulnerability create stronger partnerships

About Annie Yatch

Meet Annie, a transformational expert who helps entrepreneurial couples rise together—in business, in marriage, and in life. After a career as a Consultant for the Defense Intelligence Agency, Annie traded strategy reports for human transformation, becoming one of America’s leading voices in team leadership, performance, and conscious communication.

Having guided organizations from start-up to $1.2B in revenue, Annie brings the same mastery she’s used to scale companies into helping couples build thriving partnerships that don’t just survive success—but amplify it. Her signature approach blends neuroscience, emotional intelligence, and practical leadership to help partners communicate authentically, dissolve hidden power struggles, and reignite connection where achievement once crowded intimacy.

Known as the Chief Transformation Officer for Influencers and Entrepreneurs, Annie is trusted by high-performing couples who want more than business growth—they want relational mastery. Her work helps dismantle subconscious patterns of control, competition, and trauma so both partners can lead with vulnerability, purpose, and unity.

Annie’s mission is simple yet profound: to transform how couples love, lead, and communicate—turning their relationship into the most powerful leadership asset they have for their businesses.

About your host, Chanelle

Chanelle Carlin is a professional Wedding Officiant and Celebrant for Life™, supporting legacy-minded couples through deeply personal, bespoke wedding ceremonies, vow writing, and meaningful milestones. She is the host of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, where she shares conversations with wedding professionals and thought leaders who help couples create weddings — and marriages — rooted in intention.

🎙️ If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone planning their wedding.

Episode 44 – A Quick Catch-Up (and a Very Special Invitation)

In this brief and heartfelt episode, Chanelle shares a personal update after a quieter month behind the microphone.

From a recent family health scare to the realities of settling into a new home, March brought an unexpected pause—and an invitation to rest, reset, and return with intention.

Chanelle also shares some exciting news:
Now You May Kiss has been nominated for a Women Podcasters Award—and your vote would mean so much.

This is a short, intimate check-in… and a reminder that even in the pauses, connection remains.

In This Episode

  • A personal life update and why the podcast has been quieter lately
  • Navigating unexpected seasons (health, home, and rest)
  • An exciting milestone for Now You May Kiss
  • How you can support the podcast with your vote

Vote for Now You May Kiss

I’m so honored to share that Now You May Kiss has been nominated for a Women Podcasters Award in the Society & Culture category.

Voting is open April 1 – April 30.

👉 Now You May Kiss with Chanelle Carlin

If this podcast has ever resonated with you, supported you, or made you feel seen in your journey—your vote would be deeply appreciated.

For Engaged Couples

If you’re currently planning your wedding and searching for a ceremony that feels deeply personal, meaningful, and truly reflective of your story— I would be honored to support you.

Visit: chanellecarlin.com
Click: Book a Consultation

Together, we’ll create a ceremony that is not only unforgettable… but a powerful beginning to your marriage.

A Global Community

Whether you’re listening from the North America, Europe, Australia, Sri Lanka, or beyond—
you are so welcome here. This community continues to grow in the most beautiful and unexpected ways, and I am so grateful you’re a part of it.

Closing Note

Thank you for your patience during this quieter season—and for being here. Regular episodes are returning, with new conversations, incredible guests, and more intentional storytelling ahead.

Until then… Take good care of each other.

Episode 45 – The Post-Wedding Blues:

The Conversation No One Prepares You For

The wedding day is often described as one of the happiest days of your life—but what happens after it’s over?

In this solo episode, Chanelle Carlin explores the emotional experience many couples quietly face: the post-wedding blues. Drawing from research and her work as a luxury wedding officiant, she reframes this experience not as something to fear—but as a natural and meaningful transition.

This episode invites couples to move from expectation into awareness, from silence into connection, and from celebration into intentional marriage.

In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

  • Why post-wedding sadness is more common than we think
  • The emotional shift from wedding planning to married life
  • How cultural pressure around the “perfect day” impacts couples
  • The concept of uncertainty in early marriage—and why it matters
  • How unspoken feelings can create distance (and how to gently change that)
  • The power of naming and communicating your emotions
  • Why your marriage—not your wedding—is where your story truly begins

A Gentle Reminder

If you’re feeling a little lost, quiet, or unexpectedly emotional after your wedding…

You are not alone. And there is nothing wrong with you. You are simply in transition.

Connect with Chanelle

If you’re a couple seeking a ceremony—and a marriage—rooted in meaning, intention, and connection, Chanelle would be honored to support you.

Learn more: chanellecarlin.com
Follow along: @chanelle.carlin
Inquire about working together

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