When simply saying “I Love You” isn’t enough, or when the right words elude you, consider these ideas and tips from the book “52 Simple Ways to Say ‘I Love You'” by Stephen Arterburn and Carl Dreizler, published by Thomas Nelson Publishers in 1991. This week, we explore unique ways to express love through music and create lasting musical memories. This week’s featured image is courtesy of Tetiana Photography.
“Top 40” for Week 40
“Choose some songs, your favorite hits – From ‘Sunny’ to ‘Stormy Weather.’ Act as DJ, use your wits. Then, put it all together.” – Stephen Arterburn, Carl Dreizler
The Idea – Making Musical Memories
Music has been humanity’s love language for centuries, a universal way to say “I love you.” Here are some fun and heartfelt ways to weave music into your moments together:
Creating Musical Memories – Make a mixed tape, cd, MP3 or private YouTube Channel
Compile a mixtape, CD, MP3 playlist, or even a private YouTube channel filled with songs that hold special meaning for you and your loved one. Enhance the experience by adding a narrative for each track, explaining where you first heard it or why it’s significant. Play this collection when you’re together and savor their reactions. My husband Bill and I have a unique tradition: we continuously update a shared YouTube channel with songs the other hasn’t heard before. It’s a fun way to explore new music together.
Creating Musical Memories – Attend a musical play or movie together
Check out a local community theater or a major performing arts center and enjoy a musical together. Purchase the soundtrack in advance so you can sing along on the way home. Here in Omak, the Omak Performing Arts Center puts on incredible shows every spring. One of my favorites was “The Music Man.”
Creating Musical Memories – Write a love song
You don’t need to be a Beethoven or Lennon/McCartney to write a love song. Pen new lyrics to the tune of a popular song that resonates with your relationship. This personal touch can be incredibly touching. One of my cherished high school memories is receiving handwritten songs from a boyfriend.
Creating Musical Memories – Go to a concert
Find out who your partner’s favorite artist is and grab tickets—even if it’s not your usual genre. Experiencing their joy can make the event special for you, too.
Creating Musical Memories – Gift their favorite music
If attending a concert isn’t feasible, gifting a tape or CD of their favorite performer is a thoughtful alternative. It’s a wonderful way to enjoy their most loved tunes together, even from the comfort of home.
Creating musical memories together can strengthen your bond and provide a soundtrack to your shared experiences. So, go ahead, be the DJ of your love story!
About Chanelle
Chanelle Carlin is Your Celebrant for LifeTM, an ordained minister and professional wedding officiant with a passion for celebrating love and life. As the owner of Chanelle Carlin Weddings, LLC, she also coaches couples, believing that every moment of life and love deserves to be cherished. Chanelle works closely with couples who have cultivated strong relationships and are ready to embark on the journey of marriage with a unique and unforgettable ceremony. As your Celebrant for LifeTM, she is dedicated to honoring all of your special milestones. She lives with her family in rural Okanogan County, Washington. You can visit Chanelle at www.chanellecarlin.com or on social media on FB, LI and IG.