Podcast

Introduction

Welcome to the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, where love stories come to life. I’m Chanelle Carlin, professional Wedding Officiant and your Celebrant for Life™. You’ve built a strong relationship and are now ready to commit. You’re in the right place for inspiration and expert advice.

In this podcast, we’ll explore everything you need for a bespoke wedding ceremony that celebrates your unique, one-of-a-kind love story. Over the past several years, I’ve had the honor of officiating nearly 200 wedding ceremonies. Each one has been unique and perfectly tailored to the couple’s wishes. My goal is to share these stories, answer your questions, and inspire you as you plan your special day and more importantly, your marriage.

We’ll discuss various aspects of planning your wedding ceremony, from choosing the perfect location to writing heartfelt vows. Each episode aims to make your journey to the altar and forever as smooth and joyous as possible. I recommend starting with episode #1 to get a sense of what this podcast has to offer, but it’s completely up to you. It’s just lovely to have you here, and I’m excited to chat with you.

How to keep in touch

Our podcast episodes are designed to be informative and fun (mostly fun). Whether you’re in the early stages of planning or finalizing details, there’s something here for everyone.

If you have specific questions or a topic you’d like me to discuss, please send us an email at podcast@chanellecarlin.com. Your input helps make this podcast even more special.

Please subscribe to ‘Now You May Kiss’ on your favorite podcast platform so you never miss an episode and feel free to share with friends or family, especially if they’re getting married.

Follow us on social media for behind-the-scenes content, updates, and more. You can find us on Instagram at chanelle.carlin.

Wedding professionals, if you’re interested in sharing your expertise, we’d love to have you on an episode. Email podcast@chanellecarlin.com with your name, business, and the topic you’d like to share. Together, we can make each couple’s ceremony truly unforgettable.

Thank you for joining the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast. Let’s make your dream wedding a reality.

What to Expect

Whether you’re engaged, already married, or simply a fan of love stories like me and my Wedding Pro friends, hopefully this podcast is one you’ll enjoy. During each episode, we’ll have a mix of practical tips, insider info from the perspective of a wedding officiant, and interviews with other wedding experts. We’ll also take some time to answer your questions related to planning your outdoor wedding, especially the ceremony.

In upcoming episodes, we’ll talk about why ceremonies matter and how to make them all about the two of you and your unique, one-of-a-kind love story. We’ll also look at why hiring wedding professionals not only helps alleviate stress leading up to and on your special day and can also ensure you’re getting the best value when planning your wedding. You can expect heartwarming and funny stories, expert advice, and a whole lot of inspiration.

Trailer

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Episode No. 1 – Welcome to Now You May Kiss

“And suddenly you know: It’s time to start something new and trust the magic of beginnings.” – Meister Eckhart

Hello and welcome to the very first episode of the ‘Now You May Kiss’ podcast! I’m your host, Chanelle Carlin, and I am so excited you’re here. In this podcast, we’ll explore all things related to your bespoke wedding ceremony, relationships, and the beautiful journey of love. From planning your dream wedding to nurturing a lifelong partnership, we’ll cover a wide array of topics to help you create magical moments and to celebrate the moments that matter to you.

Episode No. 2 – Fall and Winter Elopements in the PNW – Benefits and Challenges

In this episode of the Now You May Kiss Podcast, we’re diving into the enchanting yet sometimes challenging world of outdoor fall and winter elopements in the Pacific Northwest. Whether you’re dreaming of a scenic autumn backdrop or a cozy winter wonderland, we’ve got you covered with insights into the benefits and challenges of each season and tips to make it perfectly YOU.

Tune in to uncover all the magic and practicality behind planning an unforgettable fall or winter elopement in the beautiful Pacific Northwest!

Episode No. 3 – Why Wedding Ceremonies Matter and How to Make Yours All About the Two of You

In this episode, Now You May Kiss Podcast Host (TM) and Your Celebrant for Life (TM), Chanelle Carlin talks about why wedding ceremonies are important in today’s world. She begins by taking us through a bit of history, highlighting particular traditions and rituals and discussing how wedding ceremonies strengthen us as a community and society. Finally, she focuses a bit of attention on HOW to make your wedding ceremony all about the two of you and your unique one-of-a-kind love story, because that’s really what we all want to know anyway, right?

Episode No. 4 – Why Couples Should Hire a Professional Wedding Officiant and How to Find Them

When you first began dreaming about your wedding day, you started with the two of you, your love story and planning a day where you would share your vows and commit your lives to each other. That happens in the sacred space of your wedding ceremony and there is no better person to help you create a beautiful, meaningful, truly all-about-you ceremony than a professional wedding officiant. Check out today’s episode for the myriad of reasons why AND how to find the right officiant for YOUR special day.

Episode No. 5 – Why Casia Lodge is Perfect for your Wedding or Retreat – a Chat with Evan Hale

In this episode, Chanelle chats with Evan Hale, the Director of Hospitality and Private Dining at Casia Lodge and Ranch. Casia Lodge is a luxury, destination retreat center and venue in Twisp, Washington. Evan and the team at Casia Lodge are all about creating those unforgettable, one-of-a-kind experiences that feel like magic. Evan has a real knack for blending fun with elegance. He shares what makes Casia Lodge THE place to spend an evening, or a weekend or to host your wedding or special event. Check out their website for more details at www.casialodge.com or follow them on IG @casialodgeranch

Episode No. 6 – Travel, Tailored:

Celebrating Love Through Bespoke Travel Experiences with Anna Porter

In this episode, Chanelle chats with Anna Porter, the founder and owner of Mapped Travel. Mapped is a boutique travel agency that specializes in curating exceptional travel experiences in both U.S. and international destinations. Anna focuses on creating highly personalized itineraries tailored to each client’s unique preferences and desires. Anna shares her thoughts on curating travel for couples and ways to celebrate their love through meaningful and memorable journeys. Visit her website at www.mappedluxurytravel.com or follow her on IG

Bonus Episode – Love Aligned:

Coach Penny’s Top 3 Tips for Recognizing Your True Partner

In this special bonus episode of Now You May Kiss, Chanelle welcomes Penny, a love, dating, and relationships coach. Penny Love specializes in helping high-achieving career women find their romantic soulmates. As a feminine energy expert, Penny shares her transformative approach to dating—the high-value, feminine way. With a focus on self-love, loving boundaries, and the highest standards, Penny empowers women to embrace their authentic selves. She shows how to attract deeply fulfilling relationships where they feel truly seen, heard, and cherished.

During this episode, Penny reveals her top three tips for women to know their partner is the one. She even shares a bonus tip for gentlemen to recognize they’re with the right woman. Don’t miss this inspiring and insightful conversation with this intuitive coach, holistic healing expert, and London-based dog mom! Follow Coach Penny on IG @coachpennylove or visit her website at https://coachpennylove.com/

Episode No. 7 – What is an Elopement?

In this episode of Now You May Kiss, Chanelle Carlin dives into the world of elopements, challenging outdated ideas and redefining what it means to “elope” in today’s wedding landscape. From intimate ceremonies on scenic mountaintops to thoughtfully planned micro-weddings in cozy venues, elopements are as unique as the couples who choose them.

Chanelle shares her expert insights on what makes an elopement special, why couples are drawn to these personalized celebrations, and how they can create unforgettable memories without the overwhelm of a traditional wedding. Whether you’re dreaming of saying “I do” surrounded by nature, in an iconic city, or anywhere in between, this episode will inspire and inform you on all things elopement.

If you’re considering an elopement or just curious about this growing trend, tune in to explore the possibilities.

Episode No. 8 – Nurturing Yourself Before the Vows

A Pre-Wedding Self Care Guide

Planning a wedding is exciting, but it can also be overwhelming—especially if you forget to care for the most important part of the celebration: yourself. In this episode of Now You May Kiss, we explore the transformative power of pre-wedding self-care. Drawing inspiration from Chanelle Carlin’s insightful blog, we’ll dive into practical tips and strategies to help you stay grounded, radiant, and present during the lead-up to your big day. Whether you’re navigating the pressures of planning or simply need a reminder to prioritize your well-being, this episode is your guide to embracing the journey with confidence and grace.

Episode No. 9 – Behind the Scenes with Ashley Coffin:

The Local Event Co & Leavenworth Weddings

Join Chanelle Carlin as she has a relaxed chat with Ashley Coffin, owner of The Local Event Co, a premier wedding planning business in Leavenworth, Washington. In this episode, Ashley shares her journey as a wedding planner in the picturesque Bavarian town, dives into why hiring a wedding planner is essential for creating seamless and stress-free celebrations, and reveals how planners enhance the overall client experience. Plus, get the inside scoop on the upcoming Leavenworth Wedding Show and why it’s a must-attend event for couples planning their dream day.

Tune in for expert insights, practical tips, and a behind-the-scenes look at the magic of weddings in Leavenworth and North Central Washington.

Episode No. 10 – Gratitude in Every Word:

The Art of Writing Meaningful Thank You Notes

In this heartfelt episode of Now You May Kiss, Chanelle Carlin dives into the timeless art of writing thank-you notes —a simple yet powerful way to express gratitude after your wedding (or any special occasion!). From acknowledging gifts to showing appreciation for loved ones who played a role in your big day, Chanelle shares thoughtful tips and easy-to-follow strategies to craft meaningful, heartfelt messages.

Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed by the number of notes to write or just need inspiration to make them personal and memorable, this episode will help you turn a daunting task into a joyful act of connection. Tune in to discover why handwritten thank you notes still matter, how to personalize your message, and ways to make the process smooth and stress-free.

Grab your favorite pen and a cup of tea—it’s time to spread some love, one note at a time!

Episode No. 11 – Beyond “I Do”:

3 Easy Tips to Build a Marriage that Lasts a Lifetime.

Your wedding is a magical, unforgettable day—but it’s just the beginning of a lifetime of love, growth, and commitment. In this episode of Now You May Kiss, I’m diving into why your marriage deserves just as much celebration and intention as your wedding day. We’ll explore the power of gratitude, the small everyday moments that strengthen a relationship, and how you can nurture your love beyond the “I do’s” with three super easy, but truly impactful actions you can take today. Whether you’re engaged, newly married, or celebrating decades together, this episode is filled with heart, wisdom, and actionable ways to keep the love alive. Tune in, and let’s celebrate the moments that matter!

Episode No. 12 – The Art of Wedding Catering:

Crafting a Menu that Tells a Story with Desiree Seghetti Sulpizio of Commellini Estate

When it comes to weddings, the food is more than just a meal. It’s an experience, a conversation starter, and a reflection of the couple’s love story. In this episode, I sit down with Desiree Seghetti Sulpizio, Vice President of Operations at the historic Commellini Estate in Spokane. Together, we explore the artistry of wedding catering.

Desiree shares invaluable insights into how couples can make their wedding meal unforgettable. We talk about preserving family traditions; curating personalized menus; embracing sustainability and interactive dining experiences. Desiree has a deep-rooted passion for Italian cuisine and hospitality. She has spent over a decade transforming weddings into immersive culinary experiences at Commellini Estate.

Planning your dream wedding? Love great food and storytelling? This episode is packed with inspiration and expert advice!

Listen in to discover:

  • How Commellini Estate’s rich history influences its wedding catering
  • The evolution of wedding dining—moving beyond plated meals to interactive experiences
  • The power of storytelling through food and how couples can incorporate personal touches
  • The latest trends in wedding catering, including sustainability and dietary inclusivity

Follow @CommelliniEstate on Instagram for stunning wedding inspiration and behind-the-scenes looks at their incredible cuisine.
Looking for a venue? Schedule a tour of Commellini Estate to see their breathtaking grounds and all-inclusive wedding amenities.

Loved this episode? Share it with a friend who’s planning their big day! Let’s help more couples create wedding memories that are as delicious as they are meaningful.

Episode No. 13 – From Skincare to Wedding Day Glam:

2Gorjis Tips for Brides

Get ready for a fun, laughter-filled, and deeply insightful episode of Now You May Kiss! Chanelle sits down with the vibrant and fabulous Kim Evans. Kim is a licensed aesthetician, beauty expert, and passionate advocate for every bride’s inner and outer radiance. Kim’s energy is contagious, and her wisdom on pre-wedding skincare and flawless bridal makeup is nothing short of transformational.

Kim shares practical skincare tips and confidence-boosting beauty rituals to help brides remember their queenhood on their wedding day. Whether you’re prepping your skin for that picture-perfect glow or looking for long-lasting makeup tips, this episode is for you. We’ve packed it full of real talk, expert advice, and a whole lot of fun!

Want more of Kim’s magic? Follow her on Instagram @2Gorjiswellness . You can also visit 2GORJIS Integrated Health & Wellness to explore her services. Listen to her podcast, Inspired, Conversations with Kim Evans there too. If you’re a woman business owner—check out her brand-new School of Beauty and Business here.

Tune in, take notes, and get ready to embrace your bridal glow like the queen you are!

Episode No. 14 – Turning Wedding Gifts into a Home Down Payment with Home FundIt

What if your wedding registry could help you buy your first home? In this episode of Now You May Kiss (TM), Chanelle sits down with Mortgage Loan Advisor, Tami Greene from CMG Home Loans. Chanelle and Tami talk about HomeFundIt, a revolutionary program that allows couples to use wedding gifts toward their down payment. Tami shares how it works, why it’s different from traditional crowdfunding, the benefits for couples and their guests, and how you can get started.

Ready to turn your wedding gifts into a home? Tune in now!

#HomeFundIt #WeddingRegistry #DreamWedding #UnforgettableWeddings #WeddingOfficiant #HomeOwnership #EngagedCouples #ChanelleCarlinWeddings #YourCelebrantforLife

Episode No. 15 – Knowing Your “WHY” Before you Say ‘I Do” with Verlyn Tarlton

Marriage isn’t just about the wedding day—it’s about the life you’re building together. In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Chanelle Carlin sits down with premarital coach, author, and podcast host Verlyn Tarlton to explore the profound importance of truly understanding why you want to get married before saying “I do.”

Verlyn shares wisdom from her work coaching engaged women, emphasizing that a strong marriage starts with honest conversations, full transparency, and a shared vision for the future. She offers three essential tips for couples preparing for marriage: 

  • Ask the hard questions – Why do you want to get married? Why this person? Why now? Be open, be real, and leave no room for secrets.
  • Create a marriage vision board – Just like you plan your dream wedding, plan your dream marriage. What do you see for your future together?
  • Consider marriage maintenance counseling – Just like you maintain a car or a home, a healthy marriage requires ongoing care and check-ins.

This conversation is genuine, insightful, and full of love—perfect for engaged couples, newlyweds, and even longtime partners looking to strengthen their relationship.

Tune in and gain the clarity you need to ensure your wedding day isn’t just beautiful—it’s the start of a marriage built to last.

Listen now and connect with Verlyn at www.verlyntarlton.com and on Instagram @before_you_do.

Episode 16 – Marriage, Mission & Meaning:

John & Ann’s Love Story – 42 Years in the Making

What does it take to build a marriage that lasts—not just in years, but in purpose, passion, and service? In this heart-expanding episode, Chanelle Carlin sits down with adventurer and author, John Graham and author, speaker and global change maker, Ann Medlock. They are a remarkable couple who have been married for 42 years and whose love story is deeply entwined with their life’s mission.

John is a former diplomat, mountaineer, and author. Ann is a celebrated writer, speaker and the founder of the Giraffe Heroes Project. Together, they are the powerhouse duo behind the global nonprofit honoring everyday people who “stick their necks out” for the common good. Together, they share what it means to grow through differences, stand united through challenges, and build a love that’s rooted in shared values and meaningful work.

Love is both an adventure and a calling. Whether you’re planning your wedding or reflecting on your own marriage journey, this episode is for you.

Featuring insights on:

  • Timeless advice for couples who want more than just a wedding—they want a lasting union
  • Building a marriage that supports individual and shared purpose
  • John’s journey with Asperger’s and how it shaped their dynamic
  • Why service and mission matter in partnership

Thank you for joining us for this inspiring conversation with John Graham and Ann Medlock. These are truly two extraordinary humans whose marriage and mission continue to change the world.

Learn more about today’s guests and their work:

For couples seeking a ceremony with heart and meaning:
Visit www.chanellecarlin.com to learn about my custom elopements and VIP Wedding Visioning Retreats—designed for couples who want a deeply personal and unforgettable wedding experience.

If you loved this episode, be sure to follow, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast app. Oh! Please share it with someone who believes in love with purpose.

Episode 17 – When Love Finds You:

Michelle and Ron’s Journey to Marriage

Are you searching for a love story that feels like it was written in the stars? What if I told you that sometimes, the best love stories aren’t rushed—they’re answered prayers? In this episode of the Now You May KissTM Podcast, we’re diving into a heartfelt, real-life love story that will leave you believing in divine timing, deep connections, and the power of waiting for “the one.”

Guest: Michelle Steiner
Host: Chanelle Carlin, Your Celebrant for Life™

  • In This Episode, You’ll Hear:
  • 💌 Michelle’s journey before meeting Ron and the prayer that changed everything
  • 🎨 The divine encounter at a community art center that sparked a slow-building love
  • 💫 How friendship blossomed into something more, rooted in emotional intimacy
  • 💍 Michelle’s moment of clarity—how she knew Ron was the one
  • 🙏 The role of faith and intuition in navigating love and lifelong commitment
  • 💐 Advice for couples planning intentional, high-touch ceremonies
  • ✨ Tips for high-net-worth couples seeking a luxurious yet deeply personal wedding experience

Would you like your wedding ceremony that honors your one-of-a-kind love story like Michelle and Ron’s?
Let’s co-create a deeply personal, unforgettable experience together.
💻 Book your private consultation now

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Episode 18 – Wedding Ceremony Myth Busting

w/Officiant, Author & Speaker Chris Shelley

Planning a wedding that reflects who you really are as a couple shouldn’t feel like you’re trapped in a rulebook written by strangers. In this week’s delightfully candid episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, your host and Celebrant for Life, Chanelle Carlin, sits down with the irreverently wise and wonderfully warm Chris Shelley—celebrated wedding officiant, speaker, and author of Best. Ceremony. Ever.

Together, they bust through some of the most common (and outdated) wedding myths that are still showing up in high-end ceremonies today—like whether you really can’t see each other before the ceremony, why weddings “always” start late, and if your officiant needs to be awkwardly wedged between you during your vows (spoiler alert: no!).

Chris brings a decade of experience crafting ceremonies that are wildly personal, refreshingly hilarious, and emotionally resonant. This episode is perfect for couples who want to break free from tradition in all the right ways, creating a wedding ceremony that’s elegant, intentional, and unforgettable.

💍 Whether you’re planning a luxury destination elopement or an intimate affair with family, this episode is your permission slip to make your wedding day authentically yours.

🎧 Show Notes:
Guest: Chris Shelley
Award-winning Wedding Officiant, Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant, Speaker, and Author of Best. Ceremony. Ever.
✨ Website: www.IlluminatingCeremonies.com
✨ Instagram: @illuminatingceremonies

Myths Debunked in This Episode:

  • Couples can’t see each other before the ceremony
  • Weddings always start late
  • The Officiant must stand in the “holy triangle”
  • Marriage license must be signed after the ceremony
  • Outdoor weddings must go on outdoors, rain or shine
  • You need a large wedding party
  • Personal vows should be private

This is Perfect For You If:
You’re a couple who values intentionality, elegance, and meaning in every detail of your ceremony. You’re seeking a wedding experience that blends personalization, joy, and a healthy dose of humor.

💌 Call to Action:
Ready to ditch the “shoulds” and design a wedding ceremony that reflects your story, your values, and your vision?
💖 Contact Chanelle to explore custom elopement and wedding ceremony options tailored to couples who want more than just pretty photos—you want a meaningful moment that lasts a lifetime.

🕊️ Follow the podcast, leave a review, and share this episode with someone planning their “perfect” day… because perfect doesn’t have to mean “traditional.”

Episode 19 – Love, Legacy & the Money Talk:

Turning Tough Conversations Into Connection – w/ Sarah Nicole Nadler

Imagine this: You’re standing at the altar, fully present, completely confident—not just in your love, but in your shared vision for the future. That kind of clarity starts way before the vows… it starts with conversations about money.”

Talking about finances doesn’t have to feel heavy, awkward, or tense. In fact, with the right tools—and the right mindset—it can become one of the most fun and freeing things you do together as a couple.

In this episode of the Now You May Kiss (TM) Podcast, Chanelle had the opportunity to interview Sarah Nicole Nadler, a 6-figure finance coach for female entrepreneurs, award-winning author of the book, “From Hustler to InvestHER” and Wedding business owner. Sarah helps women turn their business profits into personal wealth. Sarah also shared tips on how couples can learn to have deep conversations about money and finances before they get married.

You can find Sarah at her website: Fierce Feminine Finance by Sarah Nicole Nadler or on social media at @fiercefemininefinance OR, you can purchase her autographed book here for 50% off!

Your love is rare. Your future is worth planning for. And your ceremony should reflect the depth of both.
I hope today’s chat with Sarah Nicole Nadler inspired you to approach those ‘money talks’ with a little more courage—and maybe even a little more laughter.

CALL TO ACTION:
If this episode made you think or smile, share it with your fiancé or a friend on their own path to ‘I do.’
Remember: the kiss is just the beginning. What you build together after that is the real love story.

Episode 20 – Why Wedding Videos Matter

A heart-felt Conversation with Best Made Videos’ Reid Johnson

Guest: Reid Johnson, Owner & Operator of Best Made Videos®
🎥 Award-Winning Seattle Wedding Videographer | Corporate Video Producer | Storyteller at Heart
Connect with Reid:
🌐 Website: https://bestmadeweddingvideos.com
📺 YouTube: @bestmadevideos
📘 Facebook: Best Made Videos
🐦 X : @bestmadevideos

In this Episode:

The emotional value of wedding videography—why your love deserves to be seen and heard.
What questions to ask when hiring a videographer to capture your day with meaning and artistry.
How Reid’s award-winning approach helps couples preserve their story with heart, clarity, and elegance.


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Episode 21 – Surprise Songs, Bug Attacks, and Vow Mishaps:

Why a Pro Officiant Makes All the Difference w/Chris Shelley

Guest: Chris Shelley

  • Website: www.IlluminatingCeremonies.com
  • Instagram: @illuminatingceremonies
  • Author of Best. Ceremony. Ever. (W.W. Norton)
  • Speaker at Wedding MBA and wedding industry conferences nationwide
  • Offering a workshop this fall at Wedding MBA on Improvisation for Your Wedding Business

Highlights from the Episode:

  • Why improvisation is an essential skill for pro-officiants
  • How Chris handled a last-minute officiant replacement just three weeks before the wedding
  • A surprise lip-synced Elvis tribute from the bride’s mom (!?)
  • The bug incident during outdoor vows… and how to stay calm when nature intrudes
  • What happens when vows are heartfelt… but missing the “I promise” part
  • A lighthearted reminder to never forget your marriage license
  • The power of “the gift of more time” from your officiant—and what Chris and Chanelle are doing to create that space this year
  • Why creating a ceremony is deeply personal not just for couples, but for professional officiants too

💍 Want a ceremony that reflects your story, your values, and your love—with warmth, joy, and elegance?
Connect with Chanelle Carlin Weddings:
🌐 Website: chanellecarlin.com
📧 Email: chanelle@chanellecarlin.com
📲 Instagram: @chanelle.carlin
📌 Pinterest: chanellecarlinweddings

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An immersive showcase for couples planning unforgettable weddings in the PNW. Connect with top-tier wedding pros and design your dream celebration.
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Episode 22 – Pre-Wedding Peace & Glow:

Discussing whole Body wellness with Ruby Knapp

In this heart-centered episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle Carlin sits down with Ruby Knapp, Master Esthetician and Founder of Lavish Looks Spa & Wellness Center in Omak, Washington. Together, they explore the power of intentional pre-wedding wellness—beyond skincare and into the realms of emotional grounding, stress relief, and true self-love.

Ruby shares practical, soul-soothing rituals that help couples feel confident and present before they say “I do,” along with insider spa wisdom on red light therapy, salt room healing, and grounding routines that make a lasting difference. Whether you’re planning your wedding or supporting someone who is, this episode is a gentle reminder that your wellness is worth prioritizing.

Episode Guest:
💆‍♀️ Ruby Knapp, Master Esthetician & Owner of Lavish Looks Spa & Wellness Center

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • How stress manifests in our skin and what to do about it
  • The emotional and spiritual benefits of pre-wedding skincare
  • Why red light therapy, infrared saunas, and salt rooms are game-changers for wellness
  • The value of simple, grounding morning and evening rituals
  • Ruby’s favorite tools and tips for brides and grooms-to-be
  • Why self-worth and self-care go hand-in-hand on your wedding journey
  • The beauty of sound baths—and why she’s bringing them to Omak!

Highlights & Quotes:

“Your skin is often the first place stress shows up.”

“It’s not about vanity—it’s about honoring your whole self.”

“Once you believe you’re worth the time, self-care becomes love in action.”

Wellness Must-Haves According to Ruby:

  • Gua Sha for gentle lymphatic drainage
  • Cleanse, tone, moisturize—simple & consistent
  • Morning grounding in nature (even 30 seconds counts!)
  • Gratitude-based evening routines
  • Red light for puffiness & inflammation
  • Salt room for breath & reflection
  • Sound bath for deep emotional release

Connect with Ruby:
🌐 Website: lavish-looks.com
📍 Visit in person or schedule a tour in Omak, WA
📲 Call or text (number available on the website)
📸 Instagram: @_lavish.looks_ (but she admits she’s still working on it!)

Brought to You By:
🎉 Leavenworth Wedding Show – October 25, 2025, at Festhalle in Leavenworth, WA

Final Thought from Ruby:
“Trust that you’ve got this—and remember that your beauty comes from being truly, fully yourself.”

Episode No. 23 – Why Choosing Leavenworth, Washington for Your Wedding Ceremony Any Time of Year Is the Right Idea

In this episode, you’ll discover:

Why Leavenworth is ideal for weddings in every season—yes, even winter!

How this picturesque mountain village elevates intimate weddings and elopements;

What makes Leavenworth feel like a world away (but just a short trip from Seattle or Spokane);

The kind of sacred, soulful ceremony that Chanelle Carlin creates for her couples—and how Leavenworth supports that vision;

A look at the creative vendor community in Leavenworth who specialize in deeply intentional, beautiful celebrations; and

Details about the Leavenworth Wedding Show—a curated October event that’s perfect for engaged couples who want to be inspired and supported

Resources & Links:
Chanelle Carlin Weddings, LLC- https://chanellecarlin.com

Leavenworth Wedding Show: https://leavenworthweddingshow.com

Call to Action:
Is Leavenworth calling to your heart?
Schedule a complimentary Discovery Call and explore what it could look like to begin forever in one of the most magical places in the Pacific Northwest.

And if this episode inspired you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, or tag @chanelle.carlin on Instagram—so other couples can discover the possibility of a wedding ceremony that’s as meaningful as their love.

Episode No. 24 – Love After Loss:

Reclaiming Your Light and Saying ‘Yes’ Again with Michele Heffron

What if your love story didn’t end with divorce—but actually began again with a clearer, more radiant version of you?

In today’s deeply personal and inspiring episode of the Now You May Kiss (TM) Podcast, Chanelle Carlin, your Celebrant for Life™, sits down with Michele Heffron, a transformational coach who guides women through life’s big transitions—especially divorce—and into a future they’re truly excited about.

Together, they explore how healing, rediscovery, and spiritual alignment create the foundation for powerful new beginnings in love and life. This episode is a must-listen for anyone entering a second (or third) marriage, redefining what partnership means to them, or desiring a ceremony that reflects their entire journey—not just the highlight reel.

In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

  • The stigma around “starting over” and how to flip the narrative after divorce
  • Why your value never diminishes—no matter how many times you’ve loved or lost
  • How to know when you’re ready for a new relationship
  • The importance of emotional healing before wedding planning
  • What “calling in the one” really means—and how to attract the right person by being the real you
  • Why deeply personal ceremonies are so transformative for couples of all ages
  • How to celebrate all the moments, not just the milestones, in your marriage

Notable Quotes from Michele Heffron:

“I coach human beings, not problems.”
“If you can dream about being in a relationship again, that person is out there for you.”
“Your heart knows—it’s your head that second guesses. Let your heart speak first.”
“We don’t need to apologize for our past. We get to celebrate how far we’ve come.”

About Michele Heffron:

Michèle Heffron
Life, Relationship & Divorce Coach | Certified Calling in “The One” Coach | Podcaster | Speaker | Writer Guiding you to the heart of who you are and what you’re truly meant for.

Michèle Heffron is a transformational life and relationship coach who supports individuals through some of life’s most defining moments. From navigating the complexities of divorce to rediscovering identity after long-term partnerships, empty nesting, or career shifts, Michèle offers compassionate, strategic guidance through every phase of relationship transition.

Her work is grounded in lived experience—divorce, reinvention, and personal rediscovery—and supported by decades of leadership in both the nonprofit and coaching worlds. She holds space for her clients with empathy, clarity, and a strong belief in their capacity to evolve into who they were always meant to be.

As a certified “Calling in The One” coach, Michèle works with individuals and groups who are ready to shift internal patterns, heal emotional wounds, and become available for authentic, lasting love. Her approach is not just about finding a partner—it’s about becoming the most aligned version of yourself so that the right relationship can meet you there.

Through her podcast, Getting to the Heart: Life, Relationships & Divorce, Michèle engages thought leaders, healers, and experts in intimate conversations that help listeners grow into their most courageous and connected selves. Her weekly newsletter continues the conversation, offering heartfelt insights, transformational tools, and gentle guidance for those navigating love, loss, and the ever-evolving relationship with self.

How to Work with Michele:

Whether you’re facing the end of a marriage, the beginning of a new chapter, or the quiet ache of wondering what’s next, Michèle meets you at the crossroads—with wisdom, humor, and the kind of support that changes lives from the inside out.

Book a complimentary consultation to learn more
Podcast: Getting to the Heart: Life Relationships Divorce
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Mentioned in the Episode:

  • “Calling in the One” coaching framework
  • Journaling, prayer, and meditation as tools for clarity
  • Rediscovering old passions as a path to personal alignment
  • Real-life stories of love at 70, rediscovery at 80, and the power of saying “yes” again

Connect with Chanelle Carlin:

If you’re planning a deeply personal, meaningful ceremony—whether it’s your first or fifth time saying “I do”—Chanelle Carlin would be honored to guide you. As a professional Wedding Officiant, Coach, and Celebrant for Life™, Chanelle creates custom ceremonies that reflect the full truth of your journey. Book your complimentary Discovery Call

Episode 25 – Shining a Light on Love:

How Officiants Infuse Positivity & Gratitude into Every Ceremony with Christopher Shelley

What does it really take to keep a wedding day calm, joyful, and full of love—no matter what’s happening around you?

In this episode of Now You May Kiss™, I’m joined once again by my dear friend and fellow officiant, Christopher Shelley, Founder of Illuminating Ceremonies in New York City. This is our third conversation on the podcast, and it’s just as inspiring (and fun) as ever.

Together, we pull back the curtain on the mindset and heart work that goes into officiating weddings. We talk about the ways we, as professionals, practice positivity and gratitude in our daily lives and how those values naturally spill into the ceremonies we create. From reframing hiccups into heartwarming moments, to quietly setting the emotional “temperature” for an entire room, our goal is always to create space where love can truly shine.

Whether you’re a fellow wedding pro, a couple in the midst of planning, or someone who just loves a good behind-the-scenes story, you’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of what goes into making a ceremony unforgettable—and the quiet, powerful role positivity and gratitude play in that magic.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

  • How wedding officiants stay grounded and joyful under pressure
  • Why gratitude can transform not just a ceremony, but your own experience of it
  • Real stories from the aisle about finding silver linings in unexpected moments
  • The ripple effect positivity has on couples, guests, and the entire wedding day

Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Let’s Connect:

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Episode 26 – The Vibe of Central Washington Weddings:

The Leavenworth Wedding Show with Ashley Coffin

The Leavenworth Wedding Show: A Celebration of Central Washington Weddings

There’s something magical about weddings in Central Washington—the community, the collaboration, and yes…even the llamas! In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle welcomes Ashley Coffin, Wedding Planner, Owner of The Local Event Co., and Founder of the Leavenworth Wedding Show.

Ashley shares how this show—coming October 25, 2025, from 9 AM to 3 PM at the Leavenworth Festhalle—is designed to:

  • Immerse couples in the Central Washington wedding scene
  • Offer a fun, relaxed, and interactive vibe (think permanent jewelry, cocktails, coffee, swag, and surprise guests—like llamas!)
  • Highlight a curated selection of vendors from Leavenworth, Wenatchee Valley, Chelan, Cle Elum, Ellensburg, Omak, and beyond
  • Provide a space for wedding professionals to collaborate, recharge, and feel appreciated after a busy season

For Couples: Admission is free, and every hour brings giveaways ranging from jewelry and chocolates to vendor discounts and wedding-day experiences. Whether you just got engaged or are putting the final touches on your plans, this is your chance to meet the best local vendors in one place.

For Vendors: Limited spots remain! Showcase your work, connect with couples, and join a supportive community that thrives on collaboration. Vendor registration is available at LeavenworthWeddingShow.com.

Save the Date: October 25, 2025 | 9 AM – 3 PM | Leavenworth Festhalle
Free for Couples | Vendor registration now open

🎧 Listen in to hear why Ashley calls this event “a vibe” and why Central Washington weddings are unlike any others.

Episode 27 – Wedding Planning Stress, Power Struggles & Healing

with Lindsey Bourne

Planning a wedding is supposed to be one of the happiest times of your life—but if we’re honest, it can also bring up stress, conflict, and old emotional patterns that feel overwhelming. From family pressures to differences in vision, wedding planning has a way of shining a spotlight on dynamics that couples may not have realized were there.

In this episode of Now You May Kiss™, Chanelle welcomes Lindsey Bourne, a relationship coach and couples therapist based in the Bay Area. Lindsey helps ambitious women and couples break free from patterns of conflict, disconnection, and dysregulation so they can build relationships that feel grounded, secure, and deeply aligned for the long term. With a master’s in counseling psychology and years of experience blending somatic practices, attachment healing, and subconscious reprogramming, Lindsey brings both compassion and wisdom to the conversation.

Together, Chanelle and Lindsey explore:

  • The Power Struggle Phase in relationships—what it is, why it happens, and how it can actually become a doorway to transformation.
  • Attachment wounds and why relationships often bring up old pain that has nothing to do with incompatibility.
  • How to reframe emotional triggers as healing opportunities, not signs your relationship is broken.
  • Strategies for navigating wedding planning stress—from family expectations to vendor issues—and staying grounded as a couple.
  • The difference between guilt and resentment when setting boundaries, and how to work through these feelings together.
  • Lindsey’s “U-turn” approach to conflict resolution that helps partners move from blame to self-awareness and growth.

Lindsey reminds us that the challenges couples face—whether during wedding planning or everyday life—are not obstacles to love, but opportunities for deeper connection and healing.

Resources & Links:

Visit Lindsey’s website: https://www.lindseybournecoaching.com/
Follow Lindsey on Instagram: @lindseybournecoaching
Email: lindsey@lindseybournecoaching.com
Free Resource, “Breaking the Pattern”: https://www.lindseybournecoaching.com/breaking-the-cycle

If you’re engaged (or already married) and want a ceremony that reflects your truth while preparing you for a lifetime of love, I’d love to connect.

Episode 28 – Wedding Jewelry: Your Love Story in Metal & Stone

with Columbia River Jewelers

Your wedding ring is one of the most powerful symbols of your love story—an heirloom you’ll wear every day and pass on for generations. In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, host Chanelle Carlin, Wedding Officiant and Celebrant for Life™, welcomes Erika Czerniejewski, owner of Columbia River Jewelers in Scappoose, Oregon. Erika is not only a master jeweler and goldsmith, but also a storyteller in metal and stone, creating meaningful custom designs that reflect the unique bond of every couple.

Together, Chanelle and Erika dive into:

  • 💎 Wedding Jewelry Through History – From ancient Sumerians to Romans and beyond, how rings evolved from practical symbols of ownership to deeply romantic symbols of promise.
  • 💎 Estate, Retail, or Custom? – What couples should know about choosing an heirloom estate piece, a retail design, or commissioning a one-of-a-kind custom ring.
  • 💎 The Art of Custom Design – Erika shares the behind-the-scenes process of creating a ring, from sketches and casting to gemstone selection and hand fabrication.
  • 💎 Diamonds, Lab-Grown & Colored Stones – Exploring the differences, pros and cons, and why many modern couples are choosing sapphires, spinel, or moissanite for their engagement rings.
  • 💎 Working with a Goldsmith – Why personalized guidance matters when designing a piece you’ll wear every day for a lifetime.

Whether you’re planning your own ceremony or simply curious about the artistry of jewelry design, this episode will help you think beyond the sparkle and discover how your rings can reflect your legacy.

Listen now on your favorite podcast platform and be inspired to design jewelry as unforgettable as your vows.

Connect with Columbia River Jewelers

Columbia River Jewelers, 33611 East Columbia Avenue, Unit A, Scappoose, OR, 97056, 503-987-0308
Website: Columbia River Jewelers | Instagram: @columbia_river_jewelers | Facebook: ColumbiaRiverJewelersLLC

Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode

  • Book a complimentary consultation with Chanelle
  • Learn more about creating a meaningful wedding ceremony with Chanelle
  • Reach out to Chanelle to explore the VowCraft™ Method to write vows as unique as your rings

Episode 29 – Special episode

A Little Do-Wop, A Lotta Love


I’ve got something super fun to share — the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast has its very own theme song! And the best part? It was written especially for the show by my husband, Bill Black. This upbeat, toe-tapping, do-wop-inspired tune is pure joy. Just like every ceremony I create, it’s personal, playful, and filled with heart. You’ll be hearing it at the start of each episode, but today you get the full version.

Hit play, turn it up, and maybe even grab your sweetheart for a little spin around the living room. Because when it comes to celebrating love — music makes everything better. And a big shout-out to Bill — thank you for giving the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast its own soundtrack of love.

Episode 30 – Beyond the Perfect Honeymoon

Luxury Travel That Reflects Who You Are — with Carolyn Kulb

Discover how to plan a stress-free, luxurious honeymoon that feels truly you. Chanelle Carlin interviews Luxury Travel Advisor Carolyn Kulb of Windward Path about meaningful travel for high-end couples.

Introduction

Your honeymoon is more than a vacation — it’s the first adventure you take as a married couple. But between wedding planning and the pressure to “get it right,” creating that once-in-a-lifetime trip can be… a lot.

Why Honeymoon Planning Is Uniquely Challenging

  • Wedding planning stress and the pressure of perfection
  • When one partner takes on all the planning
  • The emotional weight of starting married life “the right way”

Key Decisions Couples Need to Make Together

  • How to balance adventure vs. relaxation
  • Choosing your ideal destination, not what’s trending
  • When multi-destination trips help (and when they complicate things)

The Case for Delayed Honeymoons

  • Why luxury couples are waiting 1–6 months post-wedding
  • How breathing space turns a trip into an experience

The Value of Expert Guidance

  • Insider access and perks only a travel advisor can provide
  • Why true luxury is stress-free, personalized, and intentional

Closing Thoughts

Whether it’s your ceremony or your honeymoon, the most unforgettable moments come from experiences that feel genuine, not performative.

🎧 Listen now on Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, hosted by Chanelle Carlin, Your Celebrant for Life™, and featuring Carolyn Kulb of Windward Path.

Episode 31 – Christmas Elopements in Leavenworth:

Snowflakes, Storybooks, and Saying “I Do”

What if your wedding day felt like stepping into a snow globe?

In this beautifully narrated solo episode of Now You May Kiss™, host Chanelle Carlin, Professional Wedding Officiant and Your Celebrant for Life™, invites couples to imagine the cozy, romantic magic of a Christmas elopement in the Bavarian wonderland of Leavenworth, Washington.

Through heartfelt storytelling, Chanelle shares the real love stories of five couples who chose the holiday season to begin their forever — from spontaneous gazebo vows during a Seahawks game to candlelit ceremonies surrounded by family and snow.

You’ll also hear practical tips for planning a Christmas elopement, insights on timing, attire, travel, and local touches, and a special invitation to attend the Leavenworth Wedding Show on October 25, 2025.

Whether you’re dreaming of a snowy “I do” or looking for inspiration for a cozy, meaningful celebration, this episode is filled with warmth, wonder, and love.

Highlights:

  • ❤️ Five real Christmas elopement stories from couples across Central Washington
  • ❄️ Practical planning tips for winter elopements
  • 🕯️ The magic of Leavenworth’s Christmas lights and snow-filled streets
  • 💍 Why Christmas is the perfect time to say “I do“
  • 🎄 Info on the Leavenworth Wedding Show and local travel resources

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